Open Seduction

bye bye people!!!!!

2011-08-18T21:51:00.000-07:00

Whats up people!!

how you guys been?? well long time i didn't post anything i know, well the reason is that this next fall is my last semester in college, i'm graduating so i don't have to much free time to write and all that.

Also i am kinda tired of this pick up scene. I don't wanna be charging you guys to teach you how to pick up women anymore, when is something that you should be doing naturally.

The community has been teaching you some ideas or hints that you could use to pick up women, i have done it and it work, but i'm 100% sure that being a natural is way better than being a "pua" with routines, or methods to pick up women.

You should not use any lines, instead act and evolve depending the situation on where you are in, and DON'T GIVE A FUCK about what others think.

This is my goodbye from the community, but i ain't dying though. In case you like my jokes, or you like my advice, or you simply think that i'm a cool person and you want to be my friend, i'd love to be your friend. i have a personal Facebook account that i will use and i will no longer be using my "pua account".

Also my twitter and google + account are personal accounts so if you like what i say or how i act hit me up.

well keep up the good work guys and enjoy the best thing in this world..... WOMEN ;)

facebook =jovosite at hotmail dot com

twitter = idronek

Google + = hydropua at gmail dot com

-idronek-

Be a Natural!!!

2011-07-25T13:21:00.000-07:00

coming up next.....

Social Networks

2011-06-18T18:36:00.000-07:00

What's up guys!!! All my life I've been thinking that if you want to meet a woman or find somebody to have sex with, doing it face to face (in person) it's the right choice. however this days most people spend a lot of time in front of a computer or cellphones and nowadays everybody is into social networks such as "Facebook", "Myspace" among others.

So here there are some tips to spice up your social network and create an "attractive profile"

Don't update your status every 5 minutes.

People who do this is annoying. Most people don't care about what you're doing every 5 seconds... status updates like "in the kitchen".. "going to the mall" ... "tired" are boring and show other people that you don't have a life and spend all your day on facebook, instead try writing some cool phrases or quotes that people identify with, a joke or something really cocky could be a good idea too.

Don't accept everybody.

Having 1500 facebook friends doesn't prove anything, it just show everybody that you're a guy that spends a lot of time on the computer, to be honest i think it's almost impossible that you'd know all those 1500 persons. I think that it's better if you only have close friends or at least real people from nearly social circles on your list of friends.

Don't use naked or half-naked profile pictures

Doing this is REALLY lame!! i don't know why some guys still obsessed with putting a half-naked picture of themselves as a profile picture, maybe you're ripped as a rock and other guys may feel jealous about you but do you want to attract guys?? i don't think so, so erase that shirtless picture of your profile and instead put something cool or funny, something like you doing a cool activity such as skydiving, surfing, running, even clubbing. Doesn't matter but it's better if you show to everybody that you're a cool guy instead of a gym tool.

Change your Privacy settings to private

Even though this is extremely recommended by everybody for security reasons, by setting your profile as private you can control who sees your information, pictures, friends and other stuff on your profile. When you do this you're not just taking care of yourself but you are also demonstrating higher value because of the "exclusivity" of your profile.. women are curious and if they heard about you they'd like to add you and see who you are, where do you hang out and what do you do (and all this info can be found on most guys' profiles) so if she wants to know about you she'll have to make an effort and send you a "friend request"(she will believe me ) and from there you can tease her cause you're the guy who's being asked to be her friend. ;)

Write a catchy "about me" paragraph

If you like social networks you probably care about what other people think of you. So by creating a profile you're like "putting yourself out" or in other words "selling yourself", and well who knows you better than you??... well i'm completely honest about me and because i know me and i LOVE me i can describe myself really good... here is an actual example of my "about me" description of my Facebook profile, so you can get an idea..

"Hello, well... I'm a complete handsome, and fucking hot asshole, who does what he wants, when he wants. Try to live partying and enjoying life,=) in other words I'm ABSOLUTELY fucking adorable"

also I've this add under my profile picture..

"I like pretty girls, That are feminine, beautiful, cute, CHEESY, and with an excellent taste on clothing. i like girls to be faithful and to know how to dance.. ohh almost forgot, with a great body :)... just in case ;) "

With this adds i show people that i know what i want and also how i see myself. The adds may be a little bit cocky and exigent but when you give people standards most of the times they're forced to follow them. ;)

Picture Albums

Well last but not least are the photo album. Every time that somebody is looking through your pictures (this is what most people do) they (women) don't want to me a folder with 800 pictures of you posing. They prefer to see pictures of you with friends (this is a good one), other women, doing activities, whatever. I can guarantee you that women prefer those kind of photos of you than you posing in front of the mirror with a duck face =/. believe me it's WEIRD and LAME!... Please leave that to women!!! (they actually look sexy)

Well this is the end of my post and don't believe me.. try it for yourself. to be honest I've had women asking me out because of my status updates, (weird huh??) i've fucked women that told me that i looked interesting on my pictures ( and i don't need a six pack).

so log in, change your privacy settings, just let people see your description and a couple of pictures and create an awesome image of yourself that women want to try! ;)

Cheers.

-idronek-

Fun Dates!!

2011-06-09T23:23:00.000-07:00

Who doesn’t want to see a woman happy??? Hahaha I know you guys have heard this thing before and some of you may think this is obvious, but WHY some guys still making this mistake????

During my experience analyzing dates and relationships I’ve seen tons of guys taking their girls on a first date to watch a movie, to a restaurant, or just to the park to talk, LIKE EVERY OTHER SINGLE GUY DOES!!! …

What’s the point of that??? What is the point of being “anti-original”?? I would like to ask myself why do guys want to put themselves on the spot and show their dates that they aren’t original or spontaneous?? well the answer?? BECAUSE IT'S SAFE!!!

Taking your date to watch a movie or to eat on a fancy restaurant may look safe because it’s what everybody does. However it isn’t. Unless you have millions of stories and you’d like to be an entertainer, you’re exposing yourself and risking awkward silences while eating or watching a movie. During your first date you want her to feel comfortable around you. You also want to create a sexual vibe because maybe later that day or on your second date you will have sex. You as well, want the conversation to be flowing in both directions not just you talking to her.

Every girl that I’ve spoke with told me the same thing.

“I want an original and outgoing guy, WHO KNOWS HOW TO MAKE ME LAUGH”

Any clue????YOU CAN BE THAT GUY!!

Instead of taking your date to the same boring places that other dudes already took her, go to a new fun place. Do something fun!! Try to find cool fun places on your city or near your city, that you think may be appropriate for a first date!!

Some suggestions while picking up places can be:

- Pick a place where you can interact together (both of you do an activity at the same time)
- Pick a place where you can challenge each other. (Challenges increase sexual vibe.However DON’T get to serious about winning, just try to have fun).
- Some place where you can talk to each other eventually.

After you finish you activity you can go and grab some food, she may be hungry and she will feel more comfortable with you. You can talk about what you just did and would be less probability for awkward silences.

Some suggestions for "cool first date places" could be:

- Paintball Courts

-Bowling Centers

-Adventure zones such as Go Karts Tracks

Use your imagination maybe you can go hiking, who knows!! there are lots of fun places on big cities and well anything that would make her remember you forever is good!!! just make sure she's not afraid of heights!.

Approach Anxiety

2011-05-18T13:34:00.000-07:00

Hey guys!! Well as all of you know, the most popular topic among pick up artists and people getting into the game of getting girls is “approach anxiety!!! Yeah approach anxiety is something that EVERYBODY has or everybody has had at least once, so don’t feel bad if you have it because here I have some tips that can help you overcome it.

Talking to strangers could be difficult at the beginning of your journey. Approaching lots of people and talking to them about yourself or about them is sometimes hard for people, and you know when you’re getting into the game and you want to meet lots of girls, everybody tells you to go out and talk to girls, get to know them and have fun. After getting to know lots of girls everybody says that you’re going to be good?????

Well that is true. But, is it just fun at the beginning???? Of course NOT. Talking to strangers for me it was more like nervousness and lots of anxiety, also thinking lots of things and ways of screwing it out, and thinking about what other people would think about me. That doesn’t seem like lots of fun… so I started my research to try to forget about that anxiety and learn how to control it.

I found that there are many ways to overcome approach anxiety. Of course there are some hard ways like learning all the routines and openers that are out there, read tons of books and memorize lines and go out and use them. So this will give you the confidence and will help you with your problem. Fortunately After I did all that I found one simple technique that really helped me and could help you to become better with women and also get away you approach anxiety for further times, WITHOUT all the research.

First of all let’s talk about how the “other” ways work.

No matter what anybody says... Every pick up artist out there has used or still uses routines once in a while. All of us started like that and in my personal opinion while I was starting with the game I LOVED to use routines. I love them because you know what reaction expect, also that you don’t have to think on anything else to say because you have already memorized some story that you are going to use. The hard party was that I had to read a LOT and memorize stuff and know what to expect when I got my answer... I Memorized a set of steps like “opening, neg, routine, DHV, neg, routine, neg, DHV, Close”, that model really worked for me, and it was lots or work trying to be “somebody else” and not having fun doing it.

After a while I realize that, as everybody says, that is not the routine that works, is the confidence that you have when you use it. To be honest now I think that doesn’t matter what you say to a girl. What matters is HOW you say it. At that time the routines were working and my anxiety was going away, I thought it was really because of the routines but I didn’t know that was because I used the routines with lots of confidence (because I knew that they will work).

Approach anxiety disappears when you practice, so you will have to go out and practice. Fortunately for you, I read lots of pick up artist books and learned lots of openers so I can tell you that there is a better way to do it where you don’t have to memorize lots of stuff.

Acting. Yes Acting!! The idea came up to me when one day I was thinking how could I overcome my approach anxiety and talk to girls until I get used to it and do it naturally??? Well what am I good at?? (I thought to myself) .. Then after a few minutes of thinking, my solution came up!!! I’M REALLY GOOD AT ACTING. Yeah! I can be whoever I want on stage so I will do it on the night club!!

Every day that I went out I played the role of “the pick up artist” where I spoke to girls, and tell them stories and try to have fun with them. If I didn’t like them I left and started over with another girl. Some days I played the role of the exchange student who was out of town and tried to find anybody who can show him around in town. Another days, I played the role of the millionaire player who was out there just to have fun. When I just wanted sex, I played the role of the guy who is in love of his fiancé and wants to have a last night of fun with all his buddies. All of them worked and I mean who cares??? The point of this is just to have a great time and meet tons of women right???

After a while of using my “acting skills” I found out that I wasn’t afraid to talking to strangers anymore and that I could just be myself and have fun at the same time. Acting really gave me the confidence to start conversations without taking in consideration what other people think of me. And with confidence I can do whatever. The secret to overcome approach anxiety is to DON’T give a fuck about what other people think of you and acting gave me the confidence to do it.

I really recommend you this method if you are starting into the game and you want to overcome approach anxiety once for all!! Do it, DON’T spend hours reading pick up books on your computer, go out and speak to people, meet new people and have fun doing it.

Openseduction.weebly.com

2011-04-13T13:40:00.001-07:00

What's up guys!!!

Well here are the news!!!!

- New Website!!! still with the Free info..

I just started this new site on weebly.com to talk about the needy game and publish the book there!!! if you are interested go and check it out!! is not ready yet but it will be soon.

- Needy game ebook...

it is almost done!! i'm writing the last chapters of it but if you hate to wait you can still checking out this blog that is going to be like my personal "diary" (that sounded gay) but yeah, i'm going to keep writing my info here so you can still reading free posts about picking up girls!!!

and well guys keep on the good work!!!

-idronek-

#close, 2nd date! NEEDY GAME!!!!

2011-04-04T12:44:00.000-07:00

Well this is not the formal intro for needy game, however it’s a simple and easy technique that I developed to get a second date and a number close really easy. The best part??? You only need at most 3 minutes!!

During my research for the needy game method I tested so many openers and “catchy phrases” that helped me to build attraction or romantic vibe and most of them work. While performing day game It came to my mind that I should use some of the “popular” methods that other puas suggest to get number closes, so I did it.. The result ??? 4 number closes out of 12 attempts.. any second date ??? Sadly none….

None of the women that I #closed with popular lines wanted a second date… some of they didn’t even know who I was… and it took me more than 10 minutes for each woman to #close…. I said to myself … THIS IS BULLSHIT….

Tired of this I decided to test a simply needy game technique to #close a girl and securely get a 2^nd date and the most important part make an impression on her so she would remember who I was !!!
First of all if you are a “pua” FORGET about all that bullshit that you have learned so far… second you have to GO OUT and practice this, if you want to get good at it. The lines and examples that I use are just a sample lines, you can change them and even get some better lines, just remember!! Is NOT about the lines, it’s about your attitude!!!
Ok now that I’ve said that I want you to get into your mind that YOU ARE THE SHIT!!! YOU ARE THE MAN!!! (If you have problems believing this read my inner game post) but even if you don’t believe it act like if you were!!!! And for sure in your 3^rd approach you’ll see that you are!!! ;)
Now this technique is developed for both day and night game!! (hint: works super good with hired guns) so the first thing that you have to do is approach your target with massive confidence!! But still casual… let her know that you like her (there’s nothing wrong with admitting that you like a girl.. she knows she’s cute and she knows you like her… otherwise why would you be approaching her on this situations!!)….
Very important, build a time bridge... Tell her that you have to go, or that you’re in a hurry … but you really really need to know her phone number because you like her so much… the important part here is that you MUST show NEEDINESS!!! act like if you would be willing to do ANYTHING to get her contact information…
(I will explain this on more detail on my “needy game” ebook that will be coming soon, so for now just read it as a fact)
Now when the situation is starting to get awkward, surprise her!!! Ask for her phone number!! …. She should be laughing by now!!!! And she would be giving you her phone number because she might think you're cute and inoffensive… now!!! VERY IMPORTANT!! You MUST to change your personality immediate when you get her phone number, change into a super confident guy! the one that you really are….

By this time you can tell her that you have to go !! but you want her to save your phone number because you want her to remember you… be cocky and if you can funny too!! It’d help!!!

Now that you have her phone number, She knows who you are, and you just spent like 3 minutes or less you can go home or try this method with another chick... you just get an easy #close...
Next day you can text her, even call her and she’d be happy to hear from you!! This time act natural.. be a nice guy but don’t forget to be cocky !!! it’s the key!!! And now you've your second date!!
This method works better with hired guns really hot chicks but i'm pretty sure that also works with average girls !! the key is to change your personality which changes her perception of you!!!

almost forgot!! all the chicks that were tested with this method, remember who i was when i called or txt them.. and after 1 or two months they still remember the first line that i used on them....

Good luck!!!
and to

Follow the 3F's of success... Fun yourself.. Fun her ... and F**k her ;)

My top 5 tips to get laid on Spring Break!!

2011-03-17T14:23:00.000-07:00

What’s up guys!! For those of you guys who are in college or high school and want to get away and have tons of sex over spring break here are my top 5 tips to get laid on your vacations !!!!

1. Talk to everybody.
Vacations are that time of the year where everybody is out there to have fun therefore everybody is going to be friendly with you. People that live on vacation spots are used to talk to tourists and they’re awkwardly friendly most of the times… so talk to everybody, the hotel manager, the waitress, the taxi driver EVERYBODY!!. If you get into a talkative mode before going out it’ll be easy for you start conversations with new women.

2. Be confident.
I know all the puas and everybody say this but it’s necessary, EVEN on vacations. You have to be sure of who you are and what do you want, so women will be more attracted to you. The best way to be confident during vacations is to DON’T GIVE A FUCK about anything. Yup that’s the best and easier way to be confident. Vacations are meant to be fun so don’t waste your time thinking what other people would think about you. They don’t care so shouldn’t either. Anyways you won’t see them ever again… Believe me Women want to have sex.. they're looking for sex so if you're talking to one woman and you see that the conversation isn't going anywhere move to another set...

3. Go to a popular vacation spot.

If what you want on your vacations is sex and fun go to a popular vacation spot. It doesn’t have to be an expensive one but one that you know that gets crowded. Before going to anyplace check over the internet what people are saying about that place and do some research about that place so you would know which clubs you should visit.

4. Take it easy with the drinks.

I know some people no need more reason than a break to fall into drinking and get shitfaced but I mean you can do it but if what you’re looking is sex (and I assume you are cause you’re reading my blog) then DO NOT get fucked up!! I mean you can have some drinks and have fun but your goal is to score women!! Women will be drunk as well and 2 drunk people aren’t a good combination for sex (one or the other will be throwing out BELIEVE ME !! hahaha ) so if what you’re looking for is sex, don’t get drunk…

5 be aware of your cock-blocking friends.

Almost nobody goes on vacation alone, and well I’ve had some experiences where if I get laid and my friends don’t they try everything to cock-block me… I know friends can act weird sometimes, so a good idea would be to ask the hotel manager for 2 or 3 keys of your room so all of your friends can have one and they won’t be bothering you when you’re laying on this hot girl’s hot tub ;)…

!!! have a nice Spring Break!!!

"Facebook Game"

2011-03-02T15:13:00.000-08:00

Hello Everybody!!

Well one day I was boring at college (kinda doing homework) and thinking about new ways to meet girls. I came up with the idea of meeting new people over the internet (in my personal opinion "online-gaming" is really lame and i think you should go out and sarge with real people on real places.. but this idea really works so keep reading!!).

This idea of online gaming is not like a dating program or getting into chat rooms with random people, the idea came out when I was talking with a friend (who is not into game) and he told me " It would be good if someday you don't want to hang out to a party or something and you just want to grab your computer, find a cute girl to talk to over the internet and well find her on Facebook and probably get to meet her other day".. I really like the idea ......

I came up with my theory and well i was doing some test so i found out that it was actually pretty easy. The rate of success was really good (25 of 23, the original was 3 of 3 but I did it over and over again after i wrote the post).

First of all I started adding some random girls that were on my school... then I just started talking to them using the "online game method" and I liked the success. I asked one of my friends to do the same but without knowing how to do it correctly. he couldn't close any of them.

To understand why, I asked him to show me the conversations that he had with the girls .. I look at them and found out that he was showing them so much interest and because he was adding them on Facebook he was "kinda" violating their privacy, they were uncomfortable with it...

If you see it from their point of view is really logic.. why do they want to talk with an stranger and share all their pictures and other information with him if THEY DON'T KNOW HIM???

Well what I found out helped me to have success on facebook. also helped my friend to know more girls than with his old method and this is not something magical or anythings is just logistics and common sense.

I always started saying hello in really different ways via msg but without accepting or adding my target yet, (because most of them where girls from my school we had some mutual friends so she answered my "hello" or "hi" really quickly) just by emails or messages.

of course all HB will feel curiosity about who you're and why are you talking to them.. so they answered but they still being at the defensive (remember they don't know you..... yet ;) )

an example of an HB 8 or higher answering would be like :

Me: Hello!

HB 8 : "Do I know you???" or "who are you"

(This is where the fun begins!!! )

you can use something like "hmm.. i dont know.. i have never see you before ,where do you go to college?... or "I am Hydro.. who are you ".. the point of this is making a "frame" so she thinks that she started to talk to you( not the other way around).

(By doing this now she thinks that she's the one who added you and that she should know you... she doesn't have the control anymore and you know what?? she want it back....)

like most of the women out there she will try to answer your comment in a way where she gets the "control" again, Probably she will try to make you remember that you added her .. so here is where you use your "secret technique" to make her realize that if she is having a "bitchy behavior" you would not want to talk to her anymore... to make my point more clear I'm going to show you an example.

HB: I don't know how you are.. you added me...

Hydro: hmm well you know what.. you're really (any neg that you can imagine to qualify her ex. mean) yeah I think I made a mistake by adding you.... Im Hydro..

most of the time the hb will say something like "sorry i didn't mean to be mean.. I think I have seen you at school" or "yeah well I live in Texas where you from" anything but she will excuse herself and try to continue with the conversation.

The last part make her doubt if she really knows you. This will probably create attraction! (women love mysteries). after that you can start building comfort and creating more mystery with routines and also being funny will help you too.. but you know after that if you see her in school you can tell her something like "ohh you're the stalker right? ;) " and there you go you have your hook !!!

also you can arrange a meeting with her for lunch or study breaks before finals, anything is good..

and of course remember.. by now she thinks that she added you and well you're just accepting her invitation ;)!!

How to Hook up With Cougars!!

2011-02-21T16:34:00.000-08:00

Hey what's up guys, well this is my first post here so i'd like to write about my favorite type of women !!!! Cougars or MILF'S.

According to Urbandictionary.com a MILF is a “mother, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them”. During my life I have seen so many milf’s so I started to think about why almost nobody hits on them??? Why they are all by themselves or just getting approached by are douche bags and AFC’s which they tend to reject??...

Most of the times Cougars (mostly) are the type of woman that like to be on control, who are also cold sometimes and they don’t look for relationships or love. Most of the cougars out there are just looking for sex and fun, cause most of them were or are on a relationship so they just wanna have fun.

You can find them on the super market (as I said before) and maybe they won’t be looking for fun. However if you hit on them using Day game should be easier for you to get her number and call her out another day.

When approaching cougars I strongly recommend you to use “Direct game”. Even though they’ve been approached for so many years they don’t want a cheesy line or a romantic line, they are probably tired of that, in my experience (as I said before) most of they just want SEX. Yes you read it well. Is it really weird to think that after 40 or 50 years of having a romance you just want sex and cut all the bullshit, problems and drama????

The most common rejection happens when they’re married or living a live with a partner and they DON’T want to cheat on him. Well if this is the case you would like to try to look for another girl, or if you like her so much and you do not care about hurting other people involved with her, you can use this method being persistent (not stalking her) and I’m pretty sure that eventually it will make her cheat (which I wouldn’t recommend though).

During the talking, speak about topics which are interesting for all the people. Talk about your “adventures” and also about traveling, food, movies. Interesting topics that she might like, Also remember to let her talk, something really important while gaming milf’s is to listen to what they’re saying. If you pay attention to what she says she might find you interesting to talk to (however I said “pay attention” I don’t mean that you should let her talk and talk and talk, she might want to lead the conversation but you can have some threads and change the topic if you feel uncomfortable with it and also if you are not having fun with the conversation just run away. The most important person here is you).

When approaching a cougar try to be confident. A cougar is not a little girl who needs protection, they may be really secure and want to be in control of the situation (because they’re used to it) don’t let her. let her think she has control but eventually make her realize that you are the “King of the world”.

Cougars may want somebody who can take control of the situation and lead them. Cougars have been approached all their lives so they are used to get approached by the same lines, as an advice try to approach them with a good funny line, or something direct.

Another very important thing to remember is to NEVER stop sexual escalation. A cougar partying at a night club isn’t looking for a “New Best Friend”, she will probably blow you off if u try to play that card on her. On the other hand if you do not stop being sexual with her she may feel that you know what you want and also that you are not just wasting your time.

As a conclusion I may want to give you 5 tips to hit on cougars, read them carefully and enjoy

1 – Try to be direct while hitting on her but also funny. As many other girls cougars just want to have fun so make her love your company and enjoy herself.

2 – Create lots of attraction. Because girls like these just want to have fun, creating attraction will make the conversation more fluently and also will add spice to the interaction.

3 – Never (yeah never!!) ask for her age. Even though cougars can be really confident and secure of themselves. Asking an old girl for her age is not being polite. And also remember that she is older and well you can kill the attraction that you already created by asking this.

4 – Don’t talk with her about her family, children etc… if she tries to talk about her family change the topic. Cougars have lived so long that talking about this could make her realize that what she’s doing is not 100% approved by society, (i. e maybe you are the same age of her son… )

5- Move to another location after you meet her. Most cougars have been through lots of things in their lives and if you meet her in a public area she may feel uncomfortable hooking up with you there. The reason why this happens is because of their age, they have a reputation to take care of. They may have important positions on important companies, business or even husbands who watch them. Remember gossip never sleeps ;)

"Bouncers" (Guest Article)

2011-02-16T15:52:00.000-08:00

Hey what's up guys how you guys doing?? I hope my last post about Valentine's Day helped you!!

Meanwhile i would like to post this article about bouncers from nightclubs. It was written by my friend from idatemodels.com !! i encourage you to check his website because it has really good information and content that could help you a lot!!

here is the post!!

The bouncer is your friend.

Yes he is. Or at least he should be.

Imagine this. You're waiting in line with a few friends outside of a hotspot bar and a guy walks right to the front of the line, smiles and gives the bouncer a “hey bro” and a quick handshake, and walks in without a pat down or ID check. Your friend says “Man, did you see that guy? What a dick. I've been waiting here for an hour.”The girls behind you say “who was that guy?”

If you've been to a happening club, you've probably seen this play out more than a few times.

Now imagine that it was you that walked right in like you owned the place.

Making friends with the bouncer will accomplish three things:

Demonstrate to all that you are a high status male.
Show to all that you are a well-connected individual.
Help you and your friends avoid the long lines.

So now you know the why. How do you get to that point?

Some tips:

Have “your bar.” If you go to the same bar once a week and act friendly to the staff, learn their names, talk with them and treat them like interesting people, and they will remember you.
Ask him his name and remember it. Write it down if you have to. Craig, in his interview with Double Your Dating's David Deangelo, talks about having a list on his cellphone with names the bouncers at every club he goes to.
Tell the bouncer an interesting story. Every try-hard guy is going to try to small talk with the bouncer to get in faster. Don't be like everyone else – tell him a story about the two girls that got into a fight at the last bar you were at.
The next time you're back at the club, go up and say hello and shake his hand. “Hey, Jeff, what's up man? Whoa, how long's the wait tonight?” By asking this, you're giving your new friend a chance to let you in early. If he says “30 minutes”, be friendly and head back to the line until next time.
Be patient. Realize that you're going to have to wait in that long line a bunch of times before you – maybe -- have a shot at being the guy that skips the lines. It's not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently. That's Tony Robbins, folks – and I'll bet he's friends with the bouncer.
Introduce girls to him. After you've meet a few times and you're about to bounce to another bar, bring over a few girls you've met and introduce them to your bouncer friend. He'll appreciate this.
Ask him if he wants a drink. Most clubs don't let their bouncers drink alcohol, but he probably wouldn't mind a water. Ask him if he wants a bottle of water, but only after you've established that you're talking to him because you're social and a cool guy, not because you're like every other asshole trying to skip the line. Usually I would say that offering to get a guy a drink is try-hard and low-status behavior, but in this case our long-term goal outweighs this.

There. You have the information. Now go out there, use it, and make us proud.

Hook-up This Valentine's Day

2011-02-14T11:11:00.000-08:00

Hey what's up people!!! Well Valentine's day is here!!! but you don't have a valentine??? Don't worry i'm going to get you one ;)!!!

This is a really easy day to hook up!! why? because everybody wants to be loved!!! feel special, and of course have sex.

But today is not about you! i know if you are a guy (if u reading this u probably are) you are not sad because you are alone on valentine's day cause "nobody loves you" heck no!! you are sad cause you want sex :P!!! but for most women is the other way around. They are more emotional.

-First thing you have to do is GET OUT OF YOUR BED, Get away from your computer and actually GO OUT!!!

-Go to popular spots, such as night clubs if you are looking for one night stands! women go there to "have fun" on this day, so go out and "celebrate" with them, they would be pleased to have your company.

-Don't arrive at 9 pm and look desperate . Arrive around 11pm or midnight, they will be the ones who are desperate (and drunk =p).

-Talk to women, it would be impossible to hook up if you aren't talking to anybody.

-Get a second date, not other day if you are not interested, but after the nightclub invite her to your place to eat or something, you can use any lame excuse like "watch a movie" if they like you they would probably go.

-Approach women in a funny manner. Tell jokes, and "if you approach just as a friend, they will try to convince you to have sex with them ;)"

-In case you are going to one of those "Light parties"* Do not dress like a "single guy". nothing is more unattractive that someone who is just looking for sex, even if you are try to cover it. remember is valentine's day, women want to be treated good. Dress with yellow or even better red clothes, make them work for you.

*in case you don't know light parties are parties where people dress according to their relationship status. Red - taken, Yellow - complicated, Green - Single... NEVER WEAR GREEN, even if you're single.

- When talking to a woman use a mixture of direct and indirect game. use needy game, tell her something like "i needed to talk to you cause you look gorgeous" stuff with that approach.

Well with that said i wish you all a really happy valentine's day filled with hot sex and nice company. Remember like new year's eve, Valentine's day is of of the most easy hook-up days, so have fun!!

idronek-

Dreams =)

2011-02-14T10:21:00.001-08:00

What's up guys !!!

Here i found out a video that i watched like 4years ago =/..... when i was 17!!! i got so excited that my dream was to fly to LA and find girls like those.

I did it :), without knowing i was partying at one of those clubs found girls like those and had fun, The name of the club was Fandango Jc in Anaheim. so today i found the video again and it was a nice feeling to see how one of my dreams came true !!! :)

good luck ;)

ps. i didn't record nor own the video :)

Peacocking

2011-01-18T14:37:00.000-08:00

Hey whats up guys!!!

Damn i received an email asking me about peacocking!!!! it disturbed me a lot...

not because of the question though, but because people still using peacock as a method of seduction... u serious ???

Well for those of u who doesn't know what peacocking means, is the art of dressing to catch attention... it was a good idea 9 years ago. on 2002 lots of people start using peacock techniques to attract women's attention but noways i am surprised that people still using it!!!

OK i must admit that when i first started using pick up techniques i always liked the idea of peacocking but not on the extreme like some instructors suggest... i always wore interesting clothes and cool stuff to be a little bit different as everybody, but that's how i am.

Why peacocking works??

Peacocking works because it gives you attitude and confidence that you gain by being comfortable with the clothes you are wearing. All those instructors who wear ridiculous clothes picked up chicks not because their clothes but because their confidence and their attitude.. EVERYTHING IS ABOUT INNER GAME. People see you like you present to them.

Some examples of "Bad" or "Ridiculous peacock"

Even though i know style and mystery are GREAT pick up artist, if i see those guys dressed like that on a nightclub i would think that they are weird people..... and guess what, Women think the same way....

I like to keep it simple. My style is more like a "changing style" i always tell my students to wear what they feel comfortable wearing. attitude is what makes the man!!! just remember to "dress for the occasion".... if you are going to the gym, you wouldn't use the same clothes that you would wear if you go to a nightclub.

by changing Style i mean dressing with different personalities. Sometimes i dress really formal, but other days i roll super sport. This helps you to keep it fresh and to be an outgoing and interesting person who don't just stay with one style but keeps on experimenting on others...

Some good examples of good peacock are:

If you want to act like a rockstar you have to dress like a rockstar, don't care what other people thinks about you... if they don't like u.. fuck them! Tommy Lee
Awesome shades, with the cool red stripe on the hair. Adam Lyons

Jude Law Casual Style with lots of fashion and accessories.

I'm not a fashion designer or anything so if you'd like to know more about the ultimate fashion secrets for men or simply see more cool styles or cool clothes i recommend you to check some popular fashion magazines for men like GQ, Men's Health, Ask men etc.....

Find a couple of good styles that fit you and try them. To prove that clothes don't matter i one dressed like a "nerd" super weird nerd and went to the most popular nightclub on my city to try to pick up chicks (it was a challenge from my friends) guess what?? i succeed :)

Don't care about what other people say!!! if you are comfortable wearing those weird clothes or hair style, wear it !!!! When i had red stripes on my hair people used to tell me that my "style was out of fashion, and that i looked odd" (because i live in a small town on the south of Texas) people don't know a lot about fashion so i just let them believe that they were right... i was the one getting laid anyways :)....

eventually women told me "you are so out of fashion" my answer?? "yeah i know, but look for example my girlfriends from Europe tell me that this style rocks... maybe not in this town but all over the world does" they just accepted and start liking it.. if they didn't like me, why would they be my friends ????

Well guys i hope this answered your questions and help you to pick one better style that makes you feel better... if you have anymore questions email me @ hydropua@gmail.com

Follow my 3 F's Advice ;) " Fun yourself, Fun her and Fuck her "

-idronek-

*on this post i'm just using some names and references of famous instructors as examples, i'm not disrespecting anybody's style or criticizing, i'm just expressing how their style differs from my own techniques

Start Dating The Women you WANT, Not the Ones You Can

2011-01-05T13:03:00.000-08:00

What's up people!!!! Today I am gonna talk about inner game. First of all i would love to wish you all a happy 2011 full of Hot women and crazy experiences. Second, i want you to make a promise to yourself, like a new years' resolution. "this year you will start Dating the women you WANT. Not the ones you can".

This advice or words are really important for me cause I LIVED with them for so many years and to be honest out of ALL my close friends i don't know ANYBODY that follows this advice, which is pretty simple by the way.

OK around the age of 16 to 19, like all the teenagers, i want to have sex with tons of women. guess what?? that didn't happened. I wanted to fuck super hot women, dream girls, models etc... and guess what?? i wasn't getting ANY of that. when I saw a woman that i really liked nothing happened, you know why?? cause i didn't even approached her, i always ended up hooking up with the women that had already picked me. Regarding that, I was happy during those times (because i started on pick up at 17 and i thought i was getting lots of girls) but what i didn't know is that i wasn't getting the girls that i wanted, it was the other way around, they were getting the guy they wanted.

Of course that didn't made me happy. I cannot say that i never got the woman that i wanted but most of the times i didn't.

Yeah my life was kinda pathetic right???

hahahaha so now you are using your pick up techniques successfully, you are hooking up with women, cute ones but think about this.. are they the ones you want?? or they pick you up first???? for me that was the case, and for most of the guys that i see around it is too....

what I want you to understand is that not Everybody thinks or behaves the same way. Most important nobody thinks equal, but they have similitudes, for example shy people they have something in common etc... when people tell you they can get ANY woman they want, they lie. Sadly they do.

Nobody can force other people to like you, understand that pick up is a series of advantages that help you to create an attitude more attractive to the opposite sex. The key of succeeding here is to UNDERSTAND how to deal with it.

Approach ALL THE WOMEN YOU LIKE, if they are hot and u like them... approach them, test your skills with them..... don't wait until they approach you, if out of 2 women u want one don't wait until the other one hits on you. pick up THE ONE THAT YOU WANT.

The most important thing is to learn how to deal with Rejection. Understand that NOT ALL women would be into you, no matter what you do. to explain myself let me give you an example:

Imagine the best pick up artist, ur favorite, a super alpha male. Now let's say that he's on a nightclub and he tries to pick up this super hot 10! she's wonderful! gorgeous eyes beautiful body, simply perfect... and he approaches, but he founds out that she's a lesbian, moreover she is in a happy elationship with her girlfriend. could he pick her up???? of course NOT, and i know that was extreme but i just want you to get my point. That could happen with women that are ONLY into mmmh let's say, 100% black guys, i'm fucked... or into tall guys... i can't help it... u see what i mean???

So you can't pick up 100% of the women u want, but u can pick up most of them. That is the point. Learn how to deal with rejection, if some women don't want you, FUCK THEM!!! they loose the opportunity to be with a fucking Rockstar like you!!! deal with it, deal with the NO.

Start talking to the woman you like if she rejects you go for another one, but be comfortable with the idea of hooking up with that ugly woman that is talking to you cause you didn't "find" anything better.

G luck!!!

-idronek-

this new year be her, First kiss, 1-1-11

2010-12-27T13:48:00.000-08:00

What's up guys how was your year????

Well for me 2010 was great, I think it's the best year in my life, yet. so 2011 has to be fucking incredible to amaze me, (pretty sure it'll be ;)), Anyhow, did you remember how did you started last year, was with a hot woman on your arms?? kissing your girlfriend??? having a threesome??? or getting drunk with your buddies =/????

whatever was your last new years' situation, this year has to be better!!! so here are some tips that will help you hook up on this day.

First, Find a cool place to celebrate.

Ok it's December 31 and you are ready but you don't know where to go??? This sucks. If you are looking to hook up (if you are reading this post you probably are) go to a crowded place. By crowded i don't mean a place like the mall on Christmas eve, but a popular night club (most of the popular night clubs need table reservations and the cover charge is expensive but if you have money do it, if not go to a less popular club( remember it's new years eve everything would be packed) arrive early and make friends, tell them that your friends are inside and get inside with them. Another good thing could be a party. Call your friends and ask them what are they doing, i'm pretty sure some of them have parties already, doesn't matter where as long as there are lots of people there. (avoid restaurants,restaurants are for couples, families etc....)

Girls are looking to hook up too

Get this in your mind!!! Girls are looking to hook up too, Girls are looking to hook up too, Girls are looking to hook up too, understood???? I have tons of female friends and they (like us) are excited for one-night-stands. They also talk about which guy would be their first kiss on that day, or they say "i feel lonely" stuff like that, and i'm pretty sure that they have thought about getting laid that night. Of course women can have fun without guys i'm not saying they can't but they also want to be with a guy. remember we aren't meant to be alone. Have this in mind and you'll be more confident.

Approach every woman

Like i always say, WHO CARES!!!! everybody is there to have fun, if you are at a nightclub or any other party place there should be lots of women, approach all of them, (not at the same time thou) but don't be shy, they wanna have fun and hook up, and the best part, they are drunk so they won't remember the next day, remember "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" Wayne Gretzky

Direct game is the best

Even though i teach needy game, i haven't released the e-book yet, so for those of you who haven't take a workshop with me or simply don't know what needy game is, the best approach for women this day is direct. DON'T USE INDIRECT. Remember this day is different, everybody wants to have fun so don't waste your time trying to convince somebody that is already convinced to have sex. Use lines like "you have BEAUTIFUL eyes" but be VERY confident, and direct, i have used "i'm dying to kiss you in 15 minutes, but for now we can talk, what's your name" and they all work. Create your lines, say the first thing that comes to your mind, and then keep talking for a little bit and kiss her. If she doesn't want to kiss you walk away and look for another woman. HIT ON EVERY WOMAN, BE FUCKING SHAMELESS!!

Don't get to drunk

It's new years eve and i'm pretty sure you want to get fucked up but you also want to get laid, So get laid and then get drunk, or better get drunk while getting laid ;).... but don't get to drunk before having a woman on your side. During NYE everything happens fast and everybody is drinking, if you drink, a couple of drinks are okay but no girl likes a drunk hitting on her.

Be quick and act like a party guy

if you are thinking on getting laid using your typical "interesting guy" techniques, i have bad news for you, that stuff won't work tonight. Women want to have fun EVERYBODY does and specially on NYE. So Act like a fucking party guy, make jokes, be the center of attention, talk to everybody be spontaneous, be fun to be around. Talk to cute woman tell jokes about ugly women, be an asshole (just for tonight is okay).

After party

Having an after party is always good because, except for Vegas, nightclubs close early and people want to keep drinking so if you have or go to an after party you have a second chance to hit on lonely women that didn't get anything on the club, i assure you that will be more easy to get laid on the after party than on the night club.

Having said that i wish you all a happy new year full of fun and happy times. GET LAID!! there's no better way to start a new year ;) and see you on 2011!!!!!

cheers !

-idronek-

So close yet, so FAR!!

2010-12-14T09:12:00.000-08:00

Confidence!!!

Yesterday i was just chillin' and i decided to go and search on the web for useless stuff... i found out a cool page that makes fun of funny pictures and i found a popular thread making fun of really"shy-guys".

So i took a look at it! To be honest i got really sad. Society, well actually men, treat women like goddess!!! and i mean women are beautiful and simply gorgeous, i can actually say lots of good things about them because they are the most precious human being on the world, but as i have said before, they are HUMANS too. Exactly like you, me, and everybody else. They have the same necessities than you and me.

Think about this, if you are really confident about yourself and you talk to a cute woman who is a little insecure, you can make her feel nervous, and this is fun because nervous women are cute but not confident guys aren't. On the other hand if you talk to a confident girl you can have a really nice conversation. Women are shy, goofy, stupid, cleaver, funny, smart, just like us!! they like affection but over all that stuff they LOVE confidence.

So go out there and be confident, hug women, don't be shy remember, they are just... HUMANS, and to be honest don't be like this guys, so close yet SOOO FAR! ;)

Introduction to "One-night-stand-threesomes" p1

2010-12-12T20:27:00.000-08:00

Threesomes... Even the word sounds sexy!!!! and combined with "one-night-stands" equals paradise.

I remember people telling me "If you find a woman who agrees to have a threesome don't let her go, there aren't too many". I used to believe that, however knowing that today almost 3 out of 25 women are into other women, i certainly believe that there are more, much more but at least 3 out of 25 make it public.

Why women like other women??..

So know you're talking to this set of girls, you are having a good time and you like one of them but if you are like me you probably like her friend too, so what do you do???

Well i have ALWAYS say that ALL the girls have a "lesbian" side inside of them, and you know what? it is TRUE. it's a fact... and i can prove it too you =).

I've been around for long time and i have asked some of my girlfriends what do they think about other girls, they all reacted the same way, they freaked out! (at first) then after giving them some of my arguments they agreed with me.

For women it is easier to be affectionate with another women, think about it, they kiss, hug, talk about boobs, etc.. on daily basis, so why wouldn't they just be more into each other??? also women are amazingly attractive, it is proved that a a woman's body is way more attractive than the man's body...

Could it be because of the curves, because of the boobs i don't know but if you don't believe this facts try this experiment, take two of your girlfriends into a strip club, tell them that you just want to have fun and you want to see their reaction, or use the line that i always use, "it's just like a night club, but there are girls dancing but nothing happens if you just don't look at them" and they'll agree to go with you.... after you are on the strip club try to convince them to interact with the strippers, give them a dollar when the strippers are dancing so they can interact, insist (at first they will be shy,) but believe me by the end THEY WILL BE BEGGING YOU FOR A PRIVATE LAP DANCE with one o the strippers 100% guaranteed.

Now i convinced you that most women are into other women, now it's time to tell you how to use this for your advantage ;), but as you know is not something easy to explain, However it is easy to do so stay tunned for the second part to see how can you arrange your own piece of heaven ;)

Source: http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/resources/FAQ.html

P.s

in case you doubt about the facts that i gave you go here and check the answer, also if you think that i don't know what i am talking about, add me on my Facebook page and check out my "casual shots" album so you can see that i certainly know about the topic ;)....

cheers!!

-idronek-

December!

2010-12-06T23:59:00.000-08:00

What's up guys !!!

Well to be honest, I've been having a hell of a week, and it's just Monday. This is the last week of classes of the semester so it's full of homeworks, exams etc... so i'll have to keep working hard to pass all my classes. However, this post isn't just about bad news, after this week is done i have some material ready for you guys so prepare!!!!!

I will be posting some good Relationship Advice, also Pick up advice such "One-night-stand threesomes, Relationship Threesomes, New years' hook up, Christmas pussy and by the end of the year we will have the infamous Needy game eBook ready". Also i have a new eBook about "how to hook up on college for free!!!! so stay tuned and keep on visiting my site.

Also i want to thank all the guys who sent me a review about needy game. You'll be receiving your free copies as soon as it is finished.

p.s

December is here so i want to wish you all a Happy Holiday season with this video, enjoy ;)

Make HER work for you!!!!

2010-11-23T16:36:00.000-08:00

What's up guys!!!

Well school was really hard for me these past days, but now that I have some free time I can go back on writing. On this post I don't wanna insult anyone, nor women or men!!! I don’t say that all the women are equal (because that will be a lie) but thanks to society sometime they act the same way.

Rules of society have put men on lower standards that sometimes women think that they hook up more than men and that is easily for them to do it. I have always thought that this is a lie and that men and women have the same chances of hooking up everywhere.

When I go out, I like to play with women’s minds and try new things. Making women act strange and put them into the reality are the most common things that I do, so I came with this path of making them suffer* to get me.

*By make her "suffer" I don’t mean any kind of abuse or hurting anybody!!! I mean something more like "make her want you" but make her want you so bad that she would do whatever it takes to get you!!!

How do I do it??? well I create some sort of lines and secrets that you can memorize and use with women so they will want you forever. NOT no really…. the truth?? is really simple, the secret??? DO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO HER!!!... yes, that's the secret...

Most hot girls out there are used to get everybody's attention when they want and they’re used to be treated as goddess. They are used to have any man that they want when they want. Sounds unfair?? yeah but it’s the truth.

If you treat a woman like a goddess she may lost her interest in you because she can have you… and like most humans we want what we can’t have. If you show her that you’re impress (too soon) with her beauty, charisma, or anything about her you may lose her.

On the other hand you can make her want you and work for you, she won’t lose her interest on you, and in fact this will increase her attraction to you exponentially. Because you are showing her that you’re used to get along with “hot people “she will feel more comfortable around you and when she notices that her “normal” seductive techniques don’t work on you she will go crazy.

If you think about it, it’s really logical. On the inside she is just a little girl, she's normal, she is silly sometimes like everybody and she makes mistakes too. Why not treat her like a human being???

How do you know when to give her your attention ??? well you have to know when to give her the attention back. You have to know how to calibrate and create frames so she can get her attention back on the right moment.
Sometimes if you give her attention to soon she can start being "bitchy" again, but if you do it to late, she will eventually get bored and leave (or think that you’re gay). So how do you know???

It’s really simple too. Pay attention to her facial expressions or movements, most of the time hot girls get frustrated when they want something and they can’t get it!!! what I mostly recommend you is to wait until she is about to explode, get bored or leave and start giving her some compliments, by this I don’t mean “kiss ass”. to be honest I think that if you start paying attention to what she is saying and look her right into her eyes she will be getting comfortable again. Then you can go ahead and give her the big prize.. YOU!!!!

Scams???

2010-10-27T13:56:00.000-07:00

Hey what's up guys!!!

First of all i like to say HAPPY HALLOWEEN!! to everybody!! i know it's not today but this weekend imma party like a fucking Rockstar :P it's my 22nd bday and well i'm really happy about it, the thing is that i won't have time to write a new post for this weekend. However i found a really good blog article written by Ross Jeffries on his pua fraud site that i want to share with you.

I found it really interesting and of course that i don't wanna disrespect nobody but i agree with the comments that Ross does here on the article. Pretty much because i HATE this and i've been on mailing lists and it's true. Not long time ago some of the pick up "gurus" explained to me this tactic and well it's pretty popular as you can see.

they use this metaphor and i quote (talking about pick up events and pick up gurus) “(pick up gurus) are bunch of rich families, who get together, so if you want to succeed on this field you have to join this families. so your options are, you are either rich or you suck their balls until they let you in."

here's the video that explains the method that they use to attract people to buy their stuff basing their information on lame scams and tricks...

Have an aweosome halloween!!!!

p.s

thanks to all the people from my city, El Paso TX who read my blog!! i didn't know that i have so many followers here!! whether is to hate or congratulate everything is appreciated.... this past 15 days my site was visited over 510 times so keep on the hating or love but still spreading the word..

also if u like to party with me because of my bday text me or hit me on facebook ;)

cheers !!

-idronek-

Picking up chicks on Halloween!

2010-10-20T08:32:00.000-07:00

Hello guys!! Well Halloween is coming!!! And yes it’s my favorite holiday of the year, you know why?? Cause it’s my birthday!!! Hahahaha Anyway, everybody is excited because of Halloween and well the parties… the sexy costumes, chicks etc… so if you need any ideas about what costume wear to create attraction, here is my top 5 suggestions to fully enjoy this awesome holiday.

Tip #1 When picking the costume please Don’t look creepy….

I know it’s Halloween and I know is a holiday to celebrate death and horror but unless you plan to spend the night alone at a party don’t choose a creepy costume. Take in mind that you are not 12 anymore, Horror costumes and geeky costumes (such as star wars costumes) are not “IN” anymore, Instead of picking a costume that will scare everybody away why not try to pick something attractive or sexy… instead of dressing yourself as “it the clown” why not try a new costume more attractive like “Hugh Heffner’s costume” or something similar to that.

Tip #2 Don’t look too stylish…

Halloween is that kind of holiday where you can style yourself and look like you want without anybody looking weird at you, This is great EXCEPT if you want to pick up chicks. Because of everything that is going around a Halloween party, I say why not use that to our advantage??... Yes you’d be right if you guessed peacock. During a regular halloween party everybody would be looking at everybody’s costumes but what would happen if yours is the most amazing one?? (Let’s clarify something when I say amazing I don’t mean that I want you to look like a fucking Christmas tree, instead of that why not keep it simple???) It’s easy to create attraction with a funny costume than with a fancy costume. My suggestions, don’t wear too much make up, and keep it simple.

Tip #3 Be comfortable with your costume

I hate to say this but when you go out to party and pick up chicks, you do it because you like it; I mean you are supposed to ENJOY the party and the adventure. Most people worry about trying to impress their friends or other “chicks” at parties, and especially on Halloween with their costumes, because of this they don’t look comfortable therefore they don’t enjoy the party properly this leading to a bad attitude with lack of confidence. Remember EVERYTHING is on the attitude so if you don’t feel comfortable you won’t have an awesome performance.

** based on personal experience…….. How you feel wearing the costume helps a lot with your self esteem.

Tip #4 Don’t spend too much money on the costume..

Spending too much on a costume that you will only use two or three times is LAME… so don’t make this mistake and instead try to buy a cheap costume. Remember you are out there to pick up girls, not to win a fucking Halloween costume’s contest. I’ve seen people take care of their expensive costumes at a party while I am partying hard…. So go to the party and have fun… I’m pretty sure that you can find a cheap and cool costume to wear.

Tip #5 Pick an appropriate place to party…

When choosing a place to celebrate your Halloween make sure you pick one filled up with hot women (they’re always wearing sexy costumes on this day, enough said???? Hahaha ) but also make sure you pick one where everybody (or at least most of the people) is dressed in a costume. Imagine how would it feel to arrive to a place where you’re the only one dressed ;)… also do some research about the popular nightclubs on your city and where is the most popular party on the city going to be… the point of this day is to have fun and be surrounded by hot beautiful chicks =).

So there you go guys!!! my last advice? Go out and have fun!!!

Cheers!

-idronek-

Golden rule. 3 f's Fun yourself, Fun her and Fuck her ;)

random friend requests on facebook!!!!!!!!

2010-09-20T00:07:00.000-07:00

Hey guys i've tried this technique before and worked really good so i wanted to share it with you.

This idea of facebook online gaming it's pretty simple, is not like a dating program or getting into chat rooms with random people, the idea came out when I was talking to a friend (who is not into game) and he told me " It would be good if someday you don't want to hang out to a party or something and you just want to grab your computer, find a cute girl to talk to over the internet and well find her on Facebook and probably get to meet her other day".. I really like the idea ......

First of all I started adding some random girls that go to my school, i just sent friend requests to any cute woman that had the name of my school on her "info" section. i asked one of my friends to do the same so i could see what he was doing different to me and why sometimes doesn't work.

I asked him to show me the conversations I found out that he was showing so much interest to early on the conversation. Because he was the one sending the friend requests, for them he was "kinda" violating their privacy because they didn't know who he was therefore they felt kinda uncomfortable with him.

If you see it from their point of view it makes sense.. why do they want to talk with an stranger and share all their pictures and other information that is on their facebook profiles if THEY DON'T KNOW HIM???

Well what I found out helped me to have success on facebook, the good thing is that is not something magical or anything special. It's just the mixture of logistics and common sense.

Well to begin I always started saying hello in really different ways via msg but without accepting or adding my target yet, (because most of them where girls from my school we had some mutual friends so them answered my "hello" or "hi" really quickly) just by emails or messages.

of course all HB will feel curiosity about who you're and why are you talking to them.. so they answered but they still being at the defensive (remember they don't know you..... yet ;) )

an hypothetical example of a conversation with a HB 8 would be something like this:

Me: Hello!

HB 8 : "Do I know you???" or "who are you"

(This is where the fun begins!!! )

you can use something like "hmm.. i dont know.. i have never see you before ,where do you go to college?... or "I am idronek.. who are you ".. the point of this is to try to create a situation where she thinks that she started the talk not you. (most guys do it the other way around).

(By creating this situation she would think that she's the one who added you and that she should know you... she doesn't have the control anymore and you know what?? she want it back....)

like most of the women out there she will try to answer your comment in a way where she gets her "control" back again, Probably she will try to make you remember that you added her .. so here is where you use your "secret technique" to make her realize that if she is having a "bitchy behavior" you would not want to talk to her anymore... to make my point more clear I'm going to show you an example.

HB: I don't know how you are.. you added me...

idronek: hmm well you know what.. you're really (any neg that you can imagine to qualify her for example something like mean or shy any good neg would make it but try not to cross the line,, stay soft) yeah I think I made a mistake by adding you.... Im idronek..

most of the time the hb will say something like "sorry i didn't mean to be mean.. I think I have seen you at school" or "yeah well I live in Texas where you from" anything but she will excuse herself and try to continue with the conversation.

The last part is to make her doubt if she really knows you, this will probably create some attraction! (women love mysteries). after that you can start building comfort and creating more mystery telling her some stories about how you think you met her ( also being funny will help you a lot).

so next time you see her online you talk to her and because you already built comfort you can ask her out or meet for something.

Even better, if you see her at school you can open her by saying something like "ohh you're the stalker girl from facebook right? ;) " and there you go you have your hook !!!

and of course remember.. if you do it correctly she should think that she added you or she will simply just forget about who sent the friend request to whom, and have an online conversation to you like "old friends" ;)

tell me what do u think???

-idronek-

Female Ejaculation!

2010-09-16T20:49:00.000-07:00

Hey guys what up!!! well if you've been reading my posts and practicing your game you're probably getting laid a lot!! so here's a super powerful technique that i'm sure you will love because of the great results and i assure you that your lovely lady will be grateful with you after you use it ;)

**First of all i would like to say that i DID NOT create this technique and i didn't write the article either.. i don't claim any credit for it i just think it's beautiful and i fully recommend it. **

Make Her Ejaculate

Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you. Although we'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that's their prerogative. Nevertheless, if you are with a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip on female ejaculation is going to leave you soaking wet.

Before you make her ejaculate

A woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all (the juice is released from the Skene's glands, or urethral sponge), if your girl doesn't have complete control over her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, there is a chance that she may actually pee all over you. If this does end up happening, be cool about it. Think about it; it's normal for her to feel as though she's about to urinate when she's about to ejaculate. If she tries to hold it in, she won't ejaculate; she has to let go. If she does end up urinating, and you trip out on her, she'll never try this again. Accept the golden shower, and don't freak out. Let her go with it; eventually she'll learn the difference between the sensations. And although you can manipulate her vagina all you like, if your woman is inhibited, then chances are she won't be able to reach this pinnacle of sexual satisfaction. She may even get annoyed by the feeling, so make sure she wants it. OK, so she wants it. If you're about ready to start seeking the liquids, read on to find out what you have to do.

Make her ejaculate with your fingers

While there are some women who can ejaculate through clitoral stimulation, or through other sex play (penile penetration or even breast-sucking), the most effective way to achieve this outcome is through G-spot manipulation with your hands.

Obviously, we're not implying that you should head directly for the G-spot when you're trying to make her ejaculate. Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first -- get her "pumped," so to speak. Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, with your palm facing up. But don't stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can't do two things at a time). About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin -- that's the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure; it may start to become more solid; just keep doing what you're doing. Tip: Use your other hand to gently press down on the area between her navel and her mons pubis (her pubic mound) for increased stimulation. If she tells you that she feels like she's about to urinate, assure her that it's near impossible for her to pee and that she should just let go. Although her instincts may be to hold back, reassure her with encouraging words like, "Oh yeah, I can't wait for you to drench my hands." As she begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a cup. Have some towels handy. After she gushes like crazy, chances are she'll want a break because her vagina might become extremely sensitive (think of the head of your penis after you ejaculate). So, don't go for a second round right away unless you get the distinct impression that she's ready for more.

Keep getting the goods

Achieving the almighty squirt may not be as simple as described above; it may take some experimentation, persuasion and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside. For example, have her lie down on the bed, face up, and kneel next to her (your body should be facing her belly button). While your fingers are stimulating her G-spot, use your other hand and your mouth to manipulate her nipples. You could also opt to rotate between penile penetration and finger penetration in the doggy-style position. And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone, so place her on a surface where her vagina easily meets your penis and penetrate her, making sure only your penis connects your bodies. And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your woman get in touch with her juicier side.

KEEP ON SIMULATING
Every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It's up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and make her ejaculate all over you. Until next time, get that juice..

Source:

Article originaly writen by David Strovny on http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_150/184_love_tip.html

Hope you liked it!! also if you'd like to know more about female ejaculations i recomend you visit Jason Julius' website. he explains very detailed how to stimulate any woman's G-spot, in order to make her squirt ;)....

http://www.orgasmarts.com/?gclid=COLUyqLJjaQCFdFO2gody39qHQ

-idronek-

Day game at College!!!

2010-08-31T17:49:00.001-07:00

Hey guys!!! This week's topic is college game!!!

As some of you may know !! i'm currently enrolled in college at the "University of Texas at El Paso", it's a nice university with lots of diversity regardless to people!! .. i also used to party with some of my cousins on California at UCLA so i kinda know a lot about the topic of "college game".

Well everybody says that between 17 and 24 years old it's the best and easiest age to get laid.. you know what?? it's true!!! (i'm not saying that it's hard when you're not between that range of age i'm just saying that it's incredible easy at this age) and it's even easier when you're in college.

Let's talk about the advantages (regarding to women) of college...

1st.. Everybody is concerned about school.

2nd. Big quantities of women at school.

3rd. NOBODY gives a damn!!!

4th. Everybody it's always busy and not concentrated on pick up..

So having said that i can tell you how to run your game on college chicks during the day!!

(later on the week i'll tell you how to pick up college chicks on local bars or college parties but this time lets focus on daygame.)

Day game!

Because in college everybody is busy with homework,work, and classes picking up girls while walking to your classes it's really easy, what i really recommend you is to "hit on every hot girl unapologetically".

While walking you can approach everybody and start a small and short non-personal conversation where you can get her number and then walk away. the chances of getting her number are really big, cause she's not expecting nobody to hit on her and also her mind is filled with other stuff (mostly not sex or guys) but homework or assignments, so take a tour while you have some free time, go to the library and pretend to be studying while looking for cute girls, ask them for a book and make a cool joke and then get her contact info and leave, go to the food court and sit next to a cute woman and tell her you hate to eat by yourself and start talking... most college people eat alone, because their friends's schedules are not always the same. Also unless you are studying engineering (like me =/) you should have a big diversity of women on your classes, make teams with them, talk to them about the homework... what i really recomend everybody is like instead of making your final projects with a bunch of guys, do it with a bunch of girls. Most of the times women are more responsible and they smell good ;)....

So there you go there are so many possibilities of getting numbers of cute women during the day!!! just approach every hot woman that you see and she won't reject you!! that's the beauty of college day game.

ok that was just to get her phone number then you can start texting her or call her so you can meet later.

who knows if you both have the same free hours you just find a new cute lunch buddy ;)....

Fake Invitation

2010-08-21T17:38:00.000-07:00

Hey what's up guys !! well lately i've been working on my book but i'd time to do this video about fake invitations !!! i LOVE to use fake invitations and well im going to share this lovely technique with you... it's pretty simple and well i didn't create the technique so the one who did it ... THANK YOU!!

p.s sorry about the "crappy" video quality.. my camera suck!! and i look kinda depresing too hahaha but it was cause the video was recorded at 3 am on a Tuesday night !!! =/... so understand :P !!!

-idronek-

Blind Dates!!!

2010-08-08T23:55:00.000-07:00

Hey what up guys !!

I wasn't able to post any new content because my computer was out but now i'm back and ready to write!!!

One student sent me an email asking me about my top advices for blind dates, and well BLIND DATES!! hahaha i think it's a really interesting topic!!! ....

Ok lots of people have fear of blind dates because they don't know the guy or girl that they're going out with, and they think that this increases the chances of the famous"everything went wrong"...

well i say that is not necessary truth!!!

1. Don't be nervous..

even though you and we all know you are nervous!! try not to act nervous !!! think on anything that makes you happy or that makes you relax... imagine that you're going out with your budies, what would you do? how would you act?? well do the same!! remember she is probably nervous too,

2. Don't try to make a good impression!

Trying to make a good impression always leads to problem!! i'm not saying that you should be a jerk or worst a weirdo but act as you normally would!! Don't try to impress her by trying to be someone that you aren't.. just BE yourself!! if she likes you for who you are it's awesome if not well it's her problem ;)

3. Take her to a fun date

many guys make the mistake of taking their dates to places such as restaurants or to the park... etc.. well you know what? she's been there before!! and because you don't know her really good yet, taking her to some boring place would be the perfect time for some awkward silence!! we all hate awkward silences!! instead of taking her to the movies or to the restaurant take her to a place where you can do activities such as riding a horse or to swimming or even better play some sports, something she usually wouldn't do on a date!!

and well blind dates are always hard but think on this!! she may be nervous too and you are so what's the problem?? what's the worst thing that could happen??

my best advice??

just have fun!!! ;)

Training!!!

2010-07-28T16:37:00.000-07:00

-Maaximum Seduction-

Idronek. Based in El Paso, Tx.

Either his personality is made of diamonds or his charm tastes like chocolate but this seduction master makes women melt instantly.

At just 21 years of age and being the creator of “the needy game”, idronek has been seducing women for more than 6 years and with the help of his experience and methods, idronek has helped hundreds of guys over the globe to overcome their fears and get better lifestyles by helping them to improve themselves.

ldronek can transform any regular guy into a seduction master. He is also one of the youngest seducers and states that “there’s no such thing as the perfect woman, just the right one for every different situation”. Click here to take a workshop with Idronek.

Reviews!

2010-07-20T01:04:00.001-07:00

Hey what's up guys!!

Well if you're reading my blog probably you know that my ebook it's going to be released soon!! and well i'd like to ask you guys for your support and help me by writing a review about my game or how my ideas help you!! ..

It's really simple but it'd make a big difference for me !!

well the guidelines are:

-The review has to be written in English (really obvious )

-You have to include your name (real or nickname doesn't matter)

- Where you currently live.

-Needs to talk about my game or how i have influenced your game

and that's pretty much it....

i really appreciate if you guys do it !! and when the ebook it's ready, to show you my gratitude all the guys that send me a review will get a copy of the book for free !!!

You guys can take all the time that you need!! however it has to be on my email before august 1st... when you're done send it to my email account at hydropua@gmail.com

again Thank you!!

-idronek-

Needy Game Ebook cover page!!

2010-07-15T17:32:00.000-07:00

Well guys as you can see i'm almost done with my ebook!! Needy game will be soon released and well it's taking me a little bit more than expected but i'll be ready soon!!!

hope everybody it's ready for a crazy weekend !!!

-idronek-

Hello!!

2010-07-12T02:19:00.000-07:00

What's up people!!!

This week i've been really busy trying to finish my needy game ebook! so i haven't had time to write a post but i will do it tomorrow!!!! so please be patient ! =p!!!

Hope everybody had an awesome weekend and i'll keep you updated!!

Cheers !!

Idronek!

openseduction and maximum seduction

2010-07-06T01:12:00.000-07:00

Hey what up people!!!

Well the latest news are that openseduction and maximum seduction just got together and now we're working on the same page!!!

If you'd like to book a workshop or a bootcamp with me you can log into http://www.maaximumseduction.com/trainers.html and look for me !!!

also join the vip lounge forum @ http://www.maaximumseduction.com/viplounge/ and read my latest posts every week!! (if you don't want to log in don't worry!! my posts will be here too)

Have an awesome week people and lets keep the HB's coming !!!

Needy game will be ready by the 15th or 16 of this month so i'll keep u guys posted ;) !!!

Don't Let her affect your emotions!!!

2010-06-13T12:27:00.000-07:00

Don't Let anybody affect your emotions!!!
Don't Let anybody affect your emotions!!!
Don't Let anybody affect your emotions!!!

do i need to say more?? cause i will!!! Ok guys this few weeks I've been doing intense sarging and i came up with the conclusion that most naturals and afc's have this problem...

they go out really happy, they wanna get laid that night!! they buy new clothes they get a good cologne and then they wait a long time just to get into a popular night club... then they very very confident approach the first cute woman they see and BAAMHH they're rejected .... then what happen ?

ok let me tell you... they get all sad... his self stem is down on the floor !!! and he don't want to approach anybody anymore for the rest of the night!!!

do you think that's ok ??? NO IT ISN'T !!! my advice !! DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE!!

doesn't matter what a woman thinks about you!! believe me if she rejects you!! you can be talking with the same night next day and she won't remember you!!! i mean who cares??? you won't see those people ever again!!! have fun!!! it's a pretty awesome hobby that we choose!!! let's have fun with it!!

my best advice is DON'T let a woman affect who you are!!! in other words don't let her affect your emotions!!! not even your friends!!! this is your life!!! if they're hating it means that you're doing it right!!!!

Cheers!!!

Idronek!!!

Live Sarge Project! Twitter...

2010-06-09T12:52:00.000-07:00

What's up everybody!! Well after a busy weekend I’m here to post the "live sarge project" for all those guys that didn't have a chance to follow me live or don't have a twitter account....

The night went something like this !!!

Getting ready 4 2nite!!! Lets take a shower and put some music on to get in the mood ;)

8:49 PM Jun 5th via Twitter for iPhone

I just arrived to the first bar, it's pool tables, it has a 4/1 men-women ratio...

10:01 PM Jun 5th via Twitter for iPhone

We're 2 guys... Not running entourage 2nite... Let's see...i'm gonna get a drink while i scan the bar for possible targets...

10:03 PM Jun 5th via Twitter for iPhone

First set .. 2 girls, 5 guys My wingman is talking to one of the guys , I asked a girl about her tattoo it's like a turtle and 2 flowers..

10:13 PM Jun 5th via Twitter for iPhone

Well the night started slow.. we went to a club with almost no girls =/... but we needed to get into the mood so i opened a set.. it took me around 10 minutes to do it... i was walking all over the bar just trying to find something ... i saw a tattoo... damn here i come.....

The convo goes like this i tell her friend "nice tat, i'm pretty sure she gets lots of compliments about it right??" the friend isn't responsive.. She says i don't know the girl w/ the tattoo laughs...

10:15 PM Jun 5th via Twitter for iPhone

They have boyfriends.. The guys are with us.. But they're friendly so now it's me and 2 couples talking about tattoos.. I'm just being friendly seems like we're not picking these girls tonight.

10:18 PM Jun 5th via Twitter for iPhone

We're playing pool.. One of the girls, and me vs my wingman and other guy...

10:22 PM Jun 5th via Twitter for iPhone

We're moving into a karaoke bar.. This bar was empty.. I got a #close of one of the girls with boyfriend.. When he went to the bathroom i asked her where they're going after.. She didn't know but because i lost on the pool game against my friend and hers... I told her it was her fault and she beeded to makr it up to me by getting us (everybody) an afterparty

10:37 PM Jun 5th via Twitter for iPhone

She agreed and gave me her phone number.. Now we're driving to "ill canto" a latin karaoke bar... Hope it's crowded.....

Sat Jun 05 2010 22:39:44 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Now we're talking... Ok we got into the bar... It has a 3/1 men women ratio... As soon as we got here.. We picked a song to sing...kesha's tik tok... Because we're 2 guys we asked for women's help... 8 girls came to the stage....

Sat Jun 05 2010 23:04:55 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

We sang... The we finished ... I told one cute 8.. "i'm waiting for the rest of my friends to arrive.. So while waiting i tought "why not make new friends".. So who are you?? What are your names...??"

Sat Jun 05 2010 23:07:58 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

I'm on the bathroom line writing all this... I'll keep u updated!!!

Sat Jun 05 2010 23:09:46 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

I love neddy game!! I told to the waitress "hey i'm with my friends on that table (6 girls the ones from the karaoke an my wingman) and we're almost leaving and well i swear that if i don't ask you for your phone number i'll feel really really bad 2morrow... She laughs and says ok.... #close

Sat Jun 05 2010 23:37:06 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Hb8 starts talking about how school it's distracting her.. She wants
To be a Actress but her parents don't let her... I told her i wanted to study but hollywood it's chasing me =.. so we gotta hide!! No pictures tonight... She laughs.

Sat Jun 05 2010 23:46:09 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

My wingman isn't talking.. 3 women are singing and he's kinda out of state... Hb asked me why i text too much.. Told her my mom wants to know where i am every 2 minutes.. So unless she's willing to accept that we can't be friends...

Sat Jun 05 2010 23:47:43 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

We went for a beer... Waitressflirts when she sees me with hb8.. Hb8 flirts with me too.. She gives me lots of hugs... I hugh her back.. "heey be careful.. I don't want us to be on people's cover 2morrow"..

Sat Jun 05 2010 23:49:38 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Being really confident and funny makes girls want you... I always act as a famous person... Btw hb says: i've a rule i don't kiss guys.. I never do that because i think that if u kiss someone and you like it.. You're lost! U fall in love.. My answer.. "that's why i'm a virgin"

Sat Jun 05 2010 23:53:17 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

2 #closes 2 girls were checking us out!!! I went over and told them that the 6 girls won't let us alone.... That we're trying to escape.. And we can't.. Waitress give us shots for free.. She still flirting.. One of the girls ask me why my wingman. Calls me idronek...

Sun Jun 06 2010 00:17:15 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

My answer "heeey you ask so many questioons... I told her friend "does she always act like this!? Or she's flirting with me??? " everybody laughs!!!! I give her a hugh!!! They're leaving inal a bit... Ask us what we doing later... #close...

Sun Jun 06 2010 00:19:24 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Ok we sang another girly song... Think i'm starting to like it lol .. Well the girls are lraving to her friend's apartament.. I can either go with them or continue with my live sarge project..

Sun Jun 06 2010 00:43:29 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Ok my wingman agreed to go with the chicks... I told them i'll be back... So now i've an afterparty.. But imma go to downtown (nightclub area) and try to get more girls to come to the afterparty... My wingman will stay with the girls at their place.. Imma meet them there later..

Sun Jun 06 2010 00:53:19 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Arriving to downtown el Paso... Looks empty... Getting into the first club "republic lounge" it's a hip hop club.. Lots of People dancing!

Sun Jun 06 2010 01:12:43 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

I hate bathroom lines lol... As soon as i got into the club i went to the dance floor!!! Lots of girls were dancing by themselves... I starting dancing and i got closer with a woman. Told her to wait for me... That i was goingto the bathroom... She waited aside the dance floor... I gave her my number and she called me.. I left the club...

Sun Jun 06 2010 01:29:00 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Arriving to "garden " a restaurant/bar .. People here are around 27 to 35 y-o damn i look young !!!Sun Jun 06 2010 01:30:00 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Ok i went to the bar and say hi to a girl.. She looked me like "who r u"... I told her. "Excuse me i was saying hello to the woman behind u" =] she got all red and i told her that if she wants we can be friends so she can say hi to me anytime!!!

Sun Jun 06 2010 01:44:26 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

She laugh i told her that i gotta go to an after party.. But first i NEEDED to buy her a drink.. However i bought 17 drinks to 17 girls before... And didn't work out well... They all got drunk and wanted to male out with me.. I had to run!!! She said i was funny and cute!!

Sun Jun 06 2010 01:51:25 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

We are leaving the club... Me , 3 girls and one new dude =.... i invited them to the afterparty... Hb8 it's getting into my car!! I'm texting my bud for directions!!! Then i'll make out with this new girl telling her "if i don't kiss u my face is gonna fall all over myself"

Sun Jun 06 2010 01:54:50 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

At the afterparty with one of the girls.... http://yfrog.com/j7aysdj

Sun Jun 06 2010 02:08:09 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Some of the guys an girls at afterparty http://yfrog.com/0gys3cj

Sun Jun 06 2010 02:11:20 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Ok i'm off to the room :)..... Hope u guys liked my live sarge report!!! G night!!!! http://yfrog.com/4cn34ej

Sun Jun 06 2010 02:12:32 (Mountain Daylight Time) via Twitter for iPhone

Well guys this was pretty much it !!! I had a final result of around 5 #closes 2 kcloses and 1 fclose!!! My wingman got a Fclose too!!! We started slow but we had a great night!!! As I always say!!! “Don’t let anything affect your emotions!!!! “ if the night it’s going slow ! it can get better!!! But it depends on you ;)

live sarge project!!

2010-06-04T13:10:00.000-07:00

what's up people!! well as some of you may have read on my twitter imma be doing a "live sarge project" tomorrow

The project technically consist on me going out to nightclubs to pick up chicks... (very original huh...)??

Well the interesting part is that i'm going to be tweeting all my approaches, openers, flakes, rejections, and closes ;) !!! so if you like to see how it goes hit me up http://twitter.com/idronek around 10pm tomorrow!!!!

Cheers people!!!!

How to make ANY girl successfully strip for you via webcam

2010-05-23T22:20:00.000-07:00

Not long time ago, I discovered a model of conversation that can make almost any girl strip for you while having a conversation with you via, MSN, skype or any other instant messaging service that allows you to have video calls.
The model it’s actually pretty simple and consists on creating emotions and playing with the woman’s mind. The different stages or emotions that you have to create in order to succeed with your goal are the following:
Hook, Excitation, Negging, trust, seduction and finally close.
About two months ago i met a woman at school and i got her email address, i added her on facebook and then to msn so I could prove my model, I did it with other women but specially with her (because she was the first one) I make really good change of stages and you can notice how do I jump from one stage to another. I will break down this conversation so you guys can see where do i make the change of stage and how do I create the emotions.
After a week of having this woman on my facebook I saw her online and decided to try my model, we talked for about 2 minutes then she asked me if i had MSN.. i told her that i haven't used MSN since high school but i'd make an exception for her because fb chat was kinda slow that day.

(the conversation is really long so I’ll just write the important parts (opener, intro to seduction, seduction and dance, ohh and goodbye #close):

HB- says:
*Hey there

idronek says:
*hey girl, I like this chat better, facebook chat it’s slow! How ya doin?

HB- says:
*Awesome well a little bit worried about school .. =(

idronek says:
*why? u having problems??? I can’t even read but guess I learn if u need help =p…

This semester I found out that if you actually study, exams are easy lol

HB- says:

*hahahaha of course!!! This is y you go to class dummy, and yup I need help with finances!!

idronek says:
*easy, get a calculator dahhh!! Hey are you actually that girl from your profile pic?

HB- says:
*lol yeah.. u don’t remember me?

idronek says:
*of course I do, but u look kinda… different.

HB- says:
*lol jerk… wut do u mean by different?? Tell me

idronek says:
*hmm idk… I could swear ur hair was like hmm … how can I say it …

HB- says:
*tell me :@

idronek says:
*kinda curly but nevermind….

Here I built interest.. we kept talking about her hair for about 2 minutes… nothing interesting yet… but she’s hooked… you could tell she got a little bit nervous when I told her she looked different... this was my call to make her qualify herself..

***She changes her display picture….. ***

idronek says:
* Heeey !!! I LOVE the picture!!!! it's!!!! Fucki' Sexy cuttie why u took it off? !!! =)!!!

HB- says:
* lol i'm always changing the pic :) but thanks!! :)

idronek says:
* baHHHH !!

***She changed her picture again to the original. ***

HB- says:
* happy now? lol :)

idronek says:
* naahhh!! u haven't changed it !!!! =P !!! (being playful, she changed it but i act like she didn't)

HB- says:
* i did but changed it back lol

idronek says:
* :P fuckin thing is so slow :p ... or ur lying :P

HB- says:
* i diiiiid but didn't like it so had to put it back

idronek says:
*:p (again) lol

HB- says:
* lol oh please. don't gimme that :P

Here is where the excitation part comes in… i showed lots of interest about her and about her display picture, i complemented her a lot and probably she feels that i am needy and that i’m like every other guy who is amazed by her beauty. (she takes long time to answer). Now what I have to do is to show her that i was just being playfull and that this is just who i am.. she is cute but i’m not amazed by her beauty.. time for negging….

idronek says:
* that new picture u have… u look like my best friend's ex girlfriend =/

HB- says:
* what is that supposed to mean?

idronek says:
* her name is sofie, probably you don’t know her… but well she’s older.. that’s my point..

HB- says:
* loooool does she go to out school???

idronek says:
*nope she’s 28… but she’s kinda stalker … u scare me looool!!!! jk

HB- says:
* I don’t look that old =(

Ok note how i use the emoticons on my conversation.. I see them like aphrodisiac yellow pills for the women lol.... Now if we want to see her strip for us we need to play our cards well... i need to show her that she can trust me.

This is a common mistake that guys make while performing online gaming. She needs to have that feeling of trust before she strips for you, she needs to see that you are not going to show her pictures or videos to everybody.

idronek says:
* ok here… now that we’re good friends imam tell you the truth…. ( I make her wait for around 3 minutes…)

HB- says:
* yes??

*still there?

idronek says:
* I’m really good reading women… let’s see.. do you have a web cam??? I want to take a good look at you =p

HB- says:
*lol I don’t know

idronek says:
* don’t worry about it!! It’ll be okay ;) trust me!!

* let me ask you something… have you ever been with an old friend that you think you trust but when the moment of trust comes.. u don’t trust him well enough???

HB- says:
*hmmm yup

idronek says:
* ok… idk why but with you it’s kinda the opposite… I don’t know you at all.. but I think I trust you…however I just wanna take a look at your eyes to see if you’re a trustful person lol….

HB- says:
*how’d u know that?

idronek says:
* :o did you know that the woman’s eyes say everything about her???? EVERYTHING….

HB- says:
*looool what does mine say????

idronek says:
* turn your webcam on and let me take a look…. cmon don't be shy ;)

****** is inviting you to start sending webcam. Do you want to Accept (Alt+C) or Decline (Alt+D) the invitation?

You have accepted the invitation to start viewing webcam.
You have accepted the invitation to start sending webcam.

HB- says:

*I just came from the gym…
*haven’t take a shower lol

idronek says:
* ok look into the camera… try to look into my eyes.. not around my eyes, INTO my eyes ok ??

HB- says:
*ok

idronek says:
* wooow.. I didn’t know u were so confident about yourself… also you’re a dreamer… u’re really direct and when you want something you just GO FOR IT..!!! that’s awesome!
*what do you see my eyes???

HB- says:

*u have a nice smile, you love partying and your confident…

idronek says:
* hahah u can do better than that!!!

*because that was kinda lame!!! I’ll give you just a smile
*but u have to let me take a good look at you again… whole body.. u look like a good piece of athlete, u work out a lot?

HB- says:
*lol yea but I’m shy…. :$

idronek says:
* Ohh don’t lie!! You’re a really secure woman… I’m pretty sure u aren’t shy of showing your body!
*just for me :P

HB- says:
*ok but really quickly… lol (she just stands in front of the camera and doing nothing... ) =p u like it??

idronek says:
* u can do beter than that!! :P I’m a photographer !! :P u’re my model !!! now give me a twirl …
*nice!!! Another one lol!!! just don't puke.. lol jk (she's trying to dance.. lol )
*told u.. u’re not shy.. =) (really sexy)

HB- says:
*now you owe me a dance!!

idronek says:
* yeah!! But not on the webcam.. girls look sexy doing dat!!! Men .. we look weird lol

HB- says:
*when I see you you have to dance!!!

idronek says:
* if you’re a good girl I’ll do it !! lol

We kept talking for about 30 minutes after that!!! with the camera on and she kept giving me occasional twirls and mini dances... after a while i had to go but i needed to get her phone number.. this could be fun.. lol

idronek says:
* Hey gotta go !!! my roommate is calling me, she needs help… but I had a great time getting to know you.. we should talk some day =)

HB- says:
*yea I know!!! It's all fun!!

idronek says:
* sure !! we should talk later!! I’ll text you so we can grab a bite or something…

HB- says:
*great!!
*looool u don’t have my phone dude!!

***I made her wait for around a minute then**

Idronek says:
*:P (hint) (this is when you type your #)

HB- says:
looool 915******5 :)

idronek says:
* ok mine is 915******* so you won’t be like “who are you” when I text u … I hate that lol…
*well gotta run!! Take care!! Byep! ;)

HB- says:
*k
*ttyl =)

ok so i picked this conversation because even though it's kinda long, it shows really good the steps and how did i escalate and change the stages so i can get her to strip for me...

If you want this method to work you DO NOT necessary have to follow or use the same lines that i used.. what matters is the model that i purpose and change the stages so you can make her feel special ;)

CPR really easy ;)

2010-05-20T10:52:00.000-07:00

Super Sexy CPR from Super Sexy CPR on Vimeo.

Hired Guns

2010-05-17T23:22:00.001-07:00

Hey guys !!! how you doing ???? well last week i recieved this email from one guy asking me for advice on the "hired guns" central and well i wanted to share it with you guys so you can tell me what do you think.

This is the message:

May 15 at 10:12pm

Boss, i have red your experiences with Strippers and Hired guns. Amazing what one can achieve so easily and others can only dream off. There's are some fine ass HB 9's works at the Casino i go every now and then. Waiters, Bartenders, Promo chicks... etc.

Tell me what should i do. I open them with negs, and it works like crazy. Im fail to hit the Hook shot. I open, we have a small chat and then they live. Im not having success with Hired guns. You're a Godfather to this Hired gun game. Advice please my brother.

Much appreciated,

Part of My Response:

Nice topic. This kind of women is a special one !! Many people in the community confuse the term hired gun with “extraordinary kind of woman” or “hard to get type of woman” and what you have to understand is that they are regular women too. They are humans, just like you and me. They have insecurities and they want to find love (or sex) just like everybody else. If you play your game well hired guns are NOT HARD TO GET AT ALL.

The thing with hired guns is that they are just different gamed, that’s all. Because they don’t act like regular women and they are usually hot, they are used to get hit on daily basis. Normal game or normal pick up lines won’t work on them. However I created the “needy method” (which is not ready yet) but it’s really useful when it comes to hired guns.

Hired guns are usually very hot women (9’s or 10’s), this is the main reason why they are hired, and unlike popular beliefs say hired guns are not as secure as they may appear. This is why neging works with them really good. Still, after negging them for a while they may get bored or insulted and leave. So what can you do?? Calibration.

Ok here is your situation. You are heading into the casino so I would recommend you to ask some of your friends (women) to go with you, (this is because you want the women in there to see that you’re preselected by other women and also that you are having a good time). Because hired guns are tired of douches that throw cheap pick up lines at them every day, I want you to try my needy game method.

What you’re going to do is to approach the one that you like showing exceptionally CONFIDENCE (this is really important because you’re going to lower your value while talking to her but you have to be very confident to be able to do it right, remember everything is on the calibration) and start talking to her. You don’t need to use negs at this point but try to make her feel like you really want her. For real, kind of like you “NEED her”. You may say something like “ok look my girls are waiting for me and I gotta go but if I don’t ask you for your phone number I’m going to feel very bad with myself tonight” to make her feel special. Try to say it really direct and confident but showing neediness for her.

She may think that you’re cute and hopefully she’ll give you her phone number.. if she says no, you can be persistent and talk to her again 15 minutes later and ask for her phone number again. (i.e when you’re really leaving you can go too) but don’t be rude and try to be cocky and NEVER let her affect your emotions. WHATEVER she says you stay calm and secure of yourself and she will see that you’re not playing.

So guys i know that all your PUA instincts may tell you "DON'T DO THAT" but believe me !! i've done it and it works !!! try it !!! you'll be more than happy to see the results !!

This part just show you how to get her phone number and get her to date you other day. I will post the end of my needy method (which will include fcloses and kcloses and threesomes) by the end of July but so far it has worked on 94% of the sets where i used it.

** when i say use "this line" i don't mean that Exactly line!! DON'T do that!! it works better if you have lots of lines and you create your own. Also is not the lines that work.. is how you make the women feel and the CONFIDENCE that you "exude ".**

What up openseduction!!!

2010-05-15T15:41:00.000-07:00

Hey guys !! finally i'm done with the classes until august!! so now get ready for the videos and infield footage of myself proving my needy game method!!

during this days i'll be writing about why you shouldn't drink and game, online gaming (Msn or IM webcam game) and finally NEEDY GAME...

so stay in touch for the new content and videos (that i would have to record again because my camera got stolen)!!

I'm going to change your lives ;)

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2010-05-08T13:11:00.000-07:00

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Maybe it's my fault!

2010-05-03T14:20:00.000-07:00

Maybe it's my fault..

Maybe i lead you to believe it was easy, when it wasn't ...

Maybe i made you think my game started at the club and not in front of my computer.

Maybe i made you think that every girl i talked to, was a close!

That my game was built on flash.. and not on fire!

Maybe it's my fault that you didn't see that failure, give me strenght.

That my pain, was my motivation

Maybe i lead you to believe that picking up girls was a god-given gift and not something i worked for.

Every single day of my life

maybe i destroyed the game

or maybe.. you're just making excuses ;)

This is an awesome speech of Michael Jordan, adapted by me to our lifestyle ;) have a nice week.

2010-04-26T00:27:00.000-07:00

hey how is it going ?? well lots of you asked me to publish my Strippers's game Field Report here on the blog so here it is!!! hope it helps !!!

It was one of those nights were you decide to go to an stripclub!! and well being there and looking at those girls i decided to start using my game..

unlike other instructors i go out and try to have fun and prove new techniques and i don't care if i look "needy" or "geeky" as long as i get the girl... so everything started with all of my friends wasting money by getting lap dances.. so i was there when one hot striper ( her name was "miss cuttie") haha approached and offered me a lap dance.

misscuttie: hey do you want a lap dance..
idronek:No but i'd accept a nice conversation....
misscuttie: you come here to talk???
idronek: i do actually.. i think strippers are really talkative and they always laugh at my jokes...
misscuttie: really? hmm what you do for a living?
idronek: i'm a party promoter ( a complete lie) and i'm also a dating coach...
misscuttie: do you actually get money doing that?
idronek: hey.. well let's drop the silly talk.. i will be having a party in 2 weeks.. and u're cute.. if you bring your friends, at least five of them i will let you come... it's gonna be a pool party so you have to look shiny...
misscuttie: where??

at this exact moment one of my drunk friends join us...

drunkfriend: hey what's up cuttie... how much do you make a day???
misscuttie: it depends on the night.. do you want a lap dance?
idronek: hey that's interesting .. i used to date a stripper before.. and she told me that her club charges like 200 dlls a night .. and she can keep the change lol..... it sucked.
misscuttie: well here we have like a "standard rate"
drunkfriend: i'll give you $400 to go out with me...
misscuttie: i don't do that.. i can't also..
idronek: well here (giving her my cellphone) write down your phone number then i'll call you so you can party with me.. remember you have to bring friends and at least five.. and you won't be working so this means i won't pay you, you can come if you just want to have fun...
misscuttie: yeah i will here (putting her cellphone number on my cell) ok.. give me a call so i can have yours..
idronek: (calling her) .. enter my name as idronek. the god of love..
misscuttie: hahahaha ok.. but i've a problem i can just get like 3 of my girlfriends is that cool?
idronek: don't worry we will work it out.... hey come here... (opening my arms like i was going to give her a hug)

she approaches kclose.. then my drunk friend says ... i'd love to party with you too...
misscuttie: cool it's gonna cost you like $500 then hahaa
drunkfriend: i will give you that money...
misscuttie: nah i was joking i don't do that... well byee!

a week after i ask her out.. we went clubbing and she brought 2 friends instead of 3 .. of course i didn't care.. they gave me preselection and i ended up fclosing her.. however my cellphone died like a week ago so i don't have her phone number anymore.. hahaha guess i'll have to do it again!!

The introduction of the infamous "Needy Game"

2010-04-18T23:30:00.000-07:00

***Sneak Peek***

If you’re reading my blog surely you haven’t been lucky with the ladies or maybe you’re lucky but you want more “luck”. If so you first have to understand that women in this world are predisposed to love men, which of course is a good thing. All of them (of course straight women) want to find a guy to spend time with (either for sex or a relationship). This is good too!!!?

Ok having said that, the only thing left to say is “Hit on girls unapologetically “ yes do it !!! if you like the girl, hit on her!! Many of us make the mistake of not hit on hot girls because we think they’re “too much for me” or “they’re too hot for me” “maybe other rich handsome guy is dating her so I’m not the one”.. well you know what??? WHO CARES!!

In this life the first person that should matter to you is YOU! So again if you like a girl hit on her! If next time that you go out you still having those feelings and thinking that “she’s too hot for you” then go back and read this post and it will help you because first you need to work on your inner game… after you get confident continue reading this .

Like in the movies, women want guys to hit on them on daily basis. Even if they are on a relationship girls love to get hit on because it helps their ego to get bigger. (Think about it if every day 20 different women hit on you how would you feel?? Well they feel the same).

Thanks to the media and cinematographic industry, women don’t think that guys hitting on them in really cheesy or stupid ways are lame. For out fortune now they think that “needy romance “is cute!! What I mean by needy romance doesn’t have anything to do with actually being needy. Instead you need to be REALLY CONFIDENT and DIRECT. Showing women what you really want and leading them to you makes them like you more.

This actually works perfectly with Hired guns. For example imagine that you see a woman that you like and you approach to her and run your regular game on her, what would happen?? Well if she’s a waitress or a bartender or something like that tons of guys have had run their game on her during the night and she’d probably be pissed. On the other hand if you go to her really confident and use "needy game" by telling her something like “hey I saw you and well I’d kick myself in the ass If I didn’t come and talk to you” (This may look lame to you, but for her this looks interesting and brave, this is direct) you will increase her interest. This is because for her you saw her, you want her and you approach her, so in her mind you’ll get her…

if she blows you off… you can come back later and be cool about it.. say something like “do you know the definition of persistence?? I’ll keep trying” and this time she may think that you’re cute and maybe agree to go out the next day to have a cup of coffee or maybe not.. But you can go back later and ask her again… OF COURSE BY THIS I DON’T MEAN STALK HER… if she’s pissed and she OBVIOUSLY doesn’t want anything to do with you look for another girl.

You can find good examples of "needy game" by watching movies. Fighting is a good movie that shows how persistence helps the guy to get the girl. Also Valentine's Day is a good movie that shows you that women are also worried about getting laid or getting the love of their life just like us.

Keep trying on girls!! maybe she would say no at first but get an agreement and then she’ll have the opportunity to get to know you better and this time she’ll be yours ;)… be cocky and funny and also really confident and needy game will work. good luck…

**the lines that I used above are just examples of lines that I have used and came to my mind while writing this post, they’re not guaranteed to work on every girl but their purpose is just to give you an idea on how to use my “needy game technique” but it will be better if you use your own natural lines.**

Don Juan DeMarco - Restaurant Scene

2010-04-16T13:19:00.000-07:00

This is how u should treat a woman ;)!!

News!!!!

2010-04-12T02:03:00.000-07:00

What's up forum!! Well seems like this week is going to be busy for me!!

First of all !! i'm working on some videos about opening and approach anxiety on night clubs !! Believe me i had approach anxiety not long time ago and i know exactly how it feels !! luckily i found a way to overcome it really easy!!! soon enough you'll be seeing one of the most exciting videos about that.

Second, I am also working on my new webpage!! yeah ! you heard right!!! soon it won't be more .blogspot.com!! it will be a real webpage!! where i will put some of my articles, an ebook with my routines and tricks that i started with, and videos that you can watch for FREE!!!

The reason why i won't charge a dollar for that is because as many of you i'm a student and i'm currently poor hahaha and i love women!! so it sux that if i want really good pua advice i have to save around $1000 dlls to get it.. also Free stuff is better ;)

On the other hand i placed a "donations" button on the right-hand side of the blog so if you guys think that my advice is helpful in any sort of way or you feel kind you should make a donation! i'm asking for this so i can start working harder on pick up and uploading more new and great content!! of course it doesn't matter if you don't donate!! because all my material it's going to be free! anyways :) !! but it would really help me if you do !!!

Hope you guys have a great week and find lot's of hot chicks to pick up!!!!

Cheers !!!

Quick post!!

2010-03-28T22:32:00.000-07:00

Just a thought about frames!!

use them .. they really work...

Creating a frame is like creating one excuse to do what you want to do. I use frames to make women think that we're doing what they want even when we aren't.

Doesn't matter how fake and/or lame your frames are, women DO NOT get it. They just listen, they obey... they're educated to go with the flow not to lead...

To prove how simple you can use frames i will write about one that i used this weekend.

My roommates had a big party on our place and i wasn't aware of that. I didn't knew anybody at the party (good thing most of them were girls) so as soon as i get home that day.. i started talking to everyone.... making jokes etc ...

one of the girls was into me and she was telling me that typically line "i'm not the type of girl that sleeps with a guy on the first date"... i just laugh... knowing that if a girl tells you that she ain't having sex with you before you try anything... she is having it....

so she started talking about her life and how she likes to design interiors, i asked her what she thought about my place... (my place was really fucked up because of the party) so she just laughed... but then i told her "my room is really good,, come so you can give me you opinion about it" .... we went to my room and well i guess you know what happens next...

This story is an example about how when the opportunity comes you can create a frame and just wait for it .... tell her a stupid excuse to take her to your place... or to go to your car... etc...

Good luck guys !! and remember... BE THE BEST AMONG THE BEST!! ;)

Make excuses!!!

2010-03-11T20:19:00.000-08:00

What's up guys!!

At first I was skeptical about this technique because I was "born and raised" a pua. Puas are trained to believe that they’re the shit!! That DOESN’T MATTER what the girl says you have to HAVE the reason. I was taught that if I asked a girl something and she refused she was giving me a shit test* and I had to give her some negs so she would agree with me at the end.

This got so serious and deeper in me, that anytime that I spoke with a girl and she didn’t agree with me I thought that she was giving me a shit test and that my game was going down. Many times I found myself rejecting sex and not calling girls the day after because she didn’t want to go home with me on a regular tuesday night because “she had classes the next day” (believe I used to think that this was a shit test).

As many of you might know, women don’t want to look like sluts or easy ladies because they care about what their friends may think of them or any other strange reason whatsoever. Because of this, we invented shit tests as a mechanism of defense against that last minute resistance.

Well what would you say if I tell you that there is an easier way to do it and you don’t have to care about shit tests at all? Would you want me to reveal the secret??? Well here it is … MAKING EXCUSES!

Making excuses as you read before is giving the woman that you’re gaming a reason to go home with you or to get along (dance/sex/date) with you. This is of course, easier than being thinking how to attack her with negs all the time. Of course neging works and I use it a lot but I really don’t recommend it against shit tests. Telling a girl an excuse to do what you want helps you a lot better to close the deal.

The way that you excuse yourself and don’t give her the chance to blow you off is by telling her statements not only asking questions but actually just saying statements (this also gives you higher value as an alpha male, but we’ll discuss that later).

Let me explain this further writing an example of what I mean. When I want to dance with a girl I don’t go to her and ask her to dance… I give an excuse and make a statement, for example “hey I would love to dance, I’m the best dancer in the world” and making a gesture for her to dance with me … she can’t say no because I’m not asking her to dance, she instead would get confused but she will agree because she will go with the flow and grab my hand and dance.

I will post more examples about this and more techniques that you can use later!! but for now you can try this and make funny and ridiculous excuses so you can get her to do what you want. Later guys !!

** Shit test - A shit test is when a woman gives a guy a hard time, usually for the purpose of seeing how he will react. Because women (especially attractive women) are hit on all the time, they have developed behaviors that quickly disqualify potential suitors that are not of a high enough value for her. The shit test is one way to do this. Shit tests can be challenges, IODs or reframes that an HB throws to test the PUA.

2010-03-06T19:32:00.001-08:00

Who isn't gonna get addicted to it???

The game... getting girls ... parties.... sexy women....social life!!!!

how can we quit???? we can't !!! It's a lifestyle!!

we don't do it for the money... we do it for the pleasure !!!

have fun tonight guys !!!

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how to get her phone number in less than 5 minutes... OVER THE INTERNET

2010-03-01T22:09:00.000-08:00

What’s up Guys.. Yesterday while I was wasting time over the internet I decided to do some online game…I tried to have sex with a girl over the internet ( hahaha of course not… I’m totally joking) but I tried to get a total stranger’s phone number in less than 5 minutes… i looked for some cute lady.. i added her to my facebook account... open the chat window and this is how it went…

10:45pm idronek

hey there !

10:45pm Lindsay

hello!

10:45pm idronek

how u doin ?

10:45pm Lindsay

pretty good and you?

10:45pm idronek

great!! hey do u go to utep ?((this is my school’s name).. i ask this and notice that i don't show any interest.. actually I look like a regular guy that is just gaming her)

10:46pm Lindsay

mmhmm (this is perfect.. she's reacting like EVERY GIRL... showing NO interest and just being kinda mean... time for negs)

10:46pm idronek

hhaa well i dont know u!! just thought u were cute.. that's why added u... (Showing confidence and telling her the truth... )

u seem pretty shy though (neg)

10:46pm Lindsay

why thank ya :):)

and depends lol (she’s starting to flirt!!!.... )

10:47pm idronek (I make her wait for a little bit.. then I answer)

and what do u usually do???

10:47pm Lindsay

every other week i go to watch a movie and then i also have meetings with (the name of her sorority) . we're also starting a soccer team too!

10:47pm idronek

nice! but it's just girls??? u guys aren't that good at soccer btw lol

10:47pm Lindsay

lol nope, but we only have 5 players so far and i think me and my 2 friends are the only girls right now

10:47pm idronek

really !!! well if you could use 1 more guy, i'm up for it!!!

10:48pm Lindsay

sure!!! just send me your ID number and I can add you to the list :):) (guess i have a date...)

10:48pm idronek

like my university number ? don't u want my phone number better??

10:48pm Lindsay

si :P:P

10:48pmJorge

don't tell me that you speak spanish too?? thats great!

10:48pm Lindsay

lol no i don't

i know a little but though

like "dond estas les llaves" (where are the keys?? )

oh and no tiento idea quanto te amo haha (you have no idea how much i love you)

10:49pm idronek

hahaha i guess you can survive with that !! :P:P seems like enough to be with me...

10:49pm Lindsay

haha my ex taught me haha (now I know she doesn’t have a boyfriend )

10:49pm idronek

i learned a liitle bit of french i was dating a french girl like a year ago but i forgot almost everything ...

i learned how to say cheers lol (The conversation stopped for like a minute... i stopped talking cause i wanted her to feel uncomfortable and try to start the conversation.. so she will "think" that she wants to talk to me.. not the other way around)...

10:50pm Lindsay

hahaha very nice! (there she goes... now i have to say goodbye.. that way she will know that she needs to make more effort to keep me interested)

10:50pm idronek

well gotta go!! it was nice to talk to u.. u weren't that shy after all.. lol

10:50pm Lindsay

lol i'll talk to ya next time btw my phone number is 915******* so you know who's calling u!! ( I have actually say this to a girl more than once lol)

and weeell our meetings are thursdays in LIBARTS *** at 4:00 if you would like to go :):)

10:50pm idronek

guess i'll see u there ... take care!

And well guys that's how you do it being "natural" ... hope this works for you... now i've to go to a soccer game and play lol... maybe i'll do it... i got her number and i got a date... then i 'll continue with the attraction, build comfort and then ask her out.... and get laid .... have a nice week guys !

Getting Addicted to it !!!

2010-02-26T00:01:00.000-08:00

Well it’s 1 in the morning and I can’t sleep. I have been thinking a lot!! I have a lot of things on my mind right now. I think I’m getting addicted to it. I want to be the best pick up artist on the world! I want to have sex with tons of women. I want to be more social. All I can think is about women. It’s getting excessive. I don’t have time to think about other stuff that I used to care about. School is being really difficult right now. In fact I’ve a test in 6 hours. I studied a little bit but I can’t concentrate. As soon as I close my eyes, I imagine sets, girls, and approaches. I think I’m already addicted to it. There are no more doubts. I WILL BE THE BEST PICK UP ARTIST EVER!

Just Sharing a thought!...

Reaching a new level of living !!!

2010-02-22T17:18:00.001-08:00

If every day you think about how would you like to really enjoy your life.. how’d you like to have a real social circle… about how many girls would you want to have sex with… about that perfect girl with whom you would love to start a relationship… and by the end of the day… you just lay on your bed by yourself… alone… tired of living the same boring life… tired of the same routine everyday… This post is for you!!! Because like you, lots of men are changing their life style, including myself. We are really living the life that we want to live, it wasn’t difficult and everybody can do it…. Do you want to find how we do it??? Keep reading ….

First of all you NEED to need a change!!! You won’t make a change until you REALLY want to change .( let’s put this clear, by this I mean that if your friends, parents, girlfriend, etc.. tell you that you need a change, you wouldn’t listen to them, even if you really need it!!! You need to want to do it, to really do it !!! )

This is not a list of steps that will help you to start a new life. These are some suggestions that will help you to create a new form of living in which you may be more happy.

To change your lifestyle you first have to know what is wrong with it, so think about it!! Think what you really want and what you are doing wrong!!!

If you want a new life style… you HAVE to get over your past life style… Forget about those bad habits… This is a new beginning; you don’t need those bad friends and all that negativity that they bring you!!! Start over … make new friend, meet new people…
- By this I don’t mean that you have to stop talking to your friends.. I just mean that you have to start meeting new people and if you want to hang out with your old friends once in a while it’s ok, but try to hang out with new people occasionally.
- new people means new opportunities, you never know what other people have to offer. There are also new adventures and new things that you get to share with new people that also makes you more experienced and valuable in life!
Like in Jim Carrey's movie "Yes Man" you have to say YES to opportunities. Opportunities come sometimes in life, (when we least expect it and when we are not paying attention) but if we don’t say yes to them, they will just pass by. Have fun saying "Yes to life"

Go out by yourself during the day… approach new girls … get phone numbers …. Do this once or twice a week… make it a habit.

Say NO to all those bad influences in your life. Say goodbye to all those friends who are always messing with you. Those "Good Friends" that just give you bad vibe and try to keep you down are not good at all, THROW THEM AWAY!!

Do NOT live in a routine. Change your daily habits. Don't go to the same places (i.e nightclubs, restaurants, in general places).

Change social circles!! Don't hang out with the same people weekly. Changing social circles helps you to meet more people, have more opportunities to interact with life and not getting bored of the same people.

Do exercise !! try something fun!!! Don't be that guy who goes to the gym everyday and hangs out with dudes! Do something different!! Enroll in the local swimming team, Go hiking, do mountain bike rides!! Have fun living!!!

I hope this list of advices help you change your life and as an extra tip I'll give you here one of the most inspirational videos (for me) about changing your life and perusing your

I know This video it's about basketball but it can be applied in any aspect of your life!!! I'd like to think that when he says "game" he means "picking up game" !! Have a nice week all of you guys.

What's up!!!

2010-02-17T10:42:00.000-08:00

What up guys???

How was Valentine's day??? and Mardi gras??? hope that you had a great time!!

During the weekend I went to Scottsdale AZ. and i realized that i live in a crappy place!! hahaha The Women over there are AWESOME!! i couldn't contact the Arizona Lair because I was short of time but if any of you guys read my posts i'd love to hang out with you guys !!!

I met some cool guys who had confidence approaching women because they work selling stuff to random people. They sell stuff to business, schools and on the malls etc, so they're used to start conversations.. They told me some of their techniques to approach and get confidence.. most of them are really good!! i will be talking about them soon!!

My computer broke!! (this means that i don't have so much time to post and get into facebook) but I am thinking in some new projects( like a book and some video footages) so expect updates soon!!!

Hope Everybody have a nice week!!!

Cheers!

Back to school

2010-01-28T19:03:00.000-08:00

Hey guys im working in a new "method" that will change life styles... also is about how did i get into this lifestyle and analyzing all the things that you can do to improve yours.

I have been going out trying new theories and also reviewing some of my really old posts (while i was just starting into the game) to see how did i do and the mistakes i made. Also is about how i used to go out and talked to everybody just to lost my approach anxiety.. then creating routines.... then closes etc...

so i'll be uploading new content any time soon. i just got back to school and well i dont have that much time to be writing about seduction. (even though i love it, i have to get good grades haha) but you can expect updates soon !!!

Good luck my friends !!!

Inner Game

2010-01-23T01:39:00.000-08:00

Hey what's up guys !!! This week I was trying to write some articles about inner game but couldn't come up with anything that i really liked. after being a little desesperate and getting a strong headache, I found this note from one of the most recognized pua's and social artists out there!!!

The note was written by the greatest Johnny Soporno!!! In this note the "Worthy Playboy" teach us some of his techniques and give us some guidelines that we can use to work on inner game.

The note is actually a list of steps that you can follow to work on your inner game. I hope you like the note, I am using this note to work on my inner game and has been working really good so far.

Here is the article as i found it:

Life is indeed a game, and learning which of its countless rules are appropriate TO YOU is critical.

"Inner Game" is a convenient euphemism for having a "Satisfied Sense-of-Self".

The more richly developed you are AS A PERSON, the less crafty and manipulative you need to be as a Player, and the less you need to justify that you DESERVE the self-serving and empowering lifestyle you have chosen.

Once you wrap your mind around this, everything falls into place: Inner Game isn't something you get taught, it isn't something you study - it's something you must EARN!

The irony is, ONLY YOU can award it to yourself.

This Self-Confidence is like Freedom: You must EARN it - it can't be bought, borrowed, or stolen, nor can it be given away.
(When Freedom is GIVEN to you, that's ACTUALLY abandonment. Think about that!)

By earning your OWN respect, and satisfying yourself that you are becoming more fully-realized with each new experience you have, you begin TRULY to like yourself.

Most men are looking to live as playboys, but there is nothing innately positive about the 'worthless playboy' stereotype. Oh, it LOOKS like fun, but it's empty and shallow...

The paradigm I recommend, alternatively, is "Worthy Playboy" and I elaborate on it further now:

To become a 'Worthy Playboy' you must develop yourself as a Renaissance Man; you should endeavour to gain a broad-base of knowledge in areas you believe people who'd interest you will be versed. This will help you to remain interesting to them also; as being interesting is INFINITELYmore attractive than being 'impressive'.

As a Worthy Playboy, you should be comfortable and confident enough to carry on conversations with women on subjects you have historically known nothing about, by candidly and sincerely encouraging them to share THEIR insights with you.

NEVER FORGET: Everyone's favourite subject is themselves, and NOTHING makes you more attractive to another person than being INTERESTED in what they have to say.

This works for men and women alike - but women are far more impressed when they receive this attention from men (since most men are usually too arrogant to concede they might not know everything... Schmucks.)

A Worthy Playboy is never ashamed of NOT KNOWING, because A) no one can know everything, and B) women will be DELIGHTED that their knowing something you don't isn't intimidating to you - and they will be flattered that you're man-enough to let them teach something to you.

"Know Thyself" said The Oracle, and that was profound advice - FOR SELF-DECEPTION IS THEROOT OF ALL EVIL.

Introspectively interrogate yourself to discover WHO YOU ARE as you develop - to ensure you haven't lost sight of yourself.

Once you KNOW who you are, you'll know what you'll do.
IF YOU ONLY DO THE THINGS WHICH MAKE SENSE TO YOU, in which you find yourself BOTH cerebrally and emotionally settled, and where your conscience is unperturbed, YOU'LL BE ACTING WITH 'REASONED CONFIDENCE'.

This is the rational way of leading your life - by following these internal guidlelines, you'll NEVER have reason for regret, and no justification for embarrassment, EVEN if things don't work out immediately! (In such cases, dispassionately step back from the experience, return to the plan to see whether the problem was situational or persistant, and modify as-necessary before trying again.)

By proceeding ONLY with Reasoned Confidence, the only guilt you need EVER feel is the guilt of letting yourself down; the ONLY embarrassment, the embarrassment of making the same mistakes over again; the ONLY regret, the regret of not having come to this epiphany earlier.

Promise yourself regularily, "I will never do anything I wouldn't do" - and keep that promise faithfully - your internal consistency and congruency depends on it. Your ethical system should NOT have a 'margin release key' - that is the road to conscious hypocrisy (See "Self-Deception" above) and is nothing less than personal treason.

Explore your world - expand your horizons, develop new friendships with people of high integrity and ethics, and remain true to yourself and your word. Your relationships and your reputation are your strongest weapons in the battle against psychological misery and emotional defeat - make certain they are solid, just, and dependable as best you can.

As you progess, you will become comfortable that ANY PERSON (man or woman) with whom you interact will feel and be better-off for knowing you [even if it's simply because you proved to them that GOOD MEN still exist, and find THEM interesting] and that they will feel better about themselves because they've spent time with you.

What could be a more-attractive attribute to have?

Most of all, YOU MUST BECOME SELF-ACTUALIZED - in other words, you need to find your comfort with yourself based on your confidently and successfully following your own path, and NOT narcissistically through the approval of others.

Permitting yourself to be held-back from progressing because you fear the disapproval of people you don't admire is MADNESS!

Lead your own life, and conscientiously ensure you make all your descisions with Reasoned Confidence, and when you are met with disapproving or taunting jibes from 'the peanut gallery' just take note of it -

then DO AS YOU WILL, and watch as your detractors become your admirers.

There's no arguing with success.

Good luck to you all,

I hope you find value in this.

Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy

I hope this information gives you what you need to improve as a better person, and also as a pick up artist. Remember that in order to get girls to like you, you first need to like you yourself.

Another thing that Johnny Soporno told me about the list, is that most people get best value from it by printing it. if you do so, you can read it as many times as you want and any time that you feel anxious or weird you can revise it and practice the tips that he gives you and finish the process.

The list contains a series of advices and tips that will help you with your inner game but remember that "is just a list" you need to practice and do everything by heart if you really want it to work.

Have a nice weekend guys !!!

Winging

2010-01-20T21:05:00.000-08:00

What is a wing??

A wing is a guy that knows about the game and has an understanding on "pick up techniques" and is willing to go out and have a good time.

is everybody a good wing???

NO. The answer to this question is NO again, for those of you who actually go out and sarge, you should know by experience that hanging out with your "AFC" friends is not the same as hanging out with somebody with experience and who also knows about the game.

One of my students asked me to talk about what are my most "popular" winging techniques.

Super-Winging

Well one of the most Helpful techniques that i use while going out winging, is actually one learned from "Mehow". He calls this technique "super-winging". The technique consist in he and his wing go out to night clubs and separate. They don't do the typical thing where the friend comes into the set after a while. What they do is that every one of them go and talk to another sets (like if they were by themselves) and at the end they get together and mixed the sets.. so they finish the night with lots of girls and getting laid.

Why this works???

Well this works because one group (lets call them group 1 ) thinks that one of the guys is really cool because he has been talking to them all the night. same thing happens to the other guy and his group (let's call them group 2).When they get together the first group (group 1 ) sees the other guy (guy 2) and feel the preselection that group 2 is giving to him, he gets more likely to get laid because of the abundance of girls on his "social circle". (same thing happens to the second guy and the group 1).

The "Back to Back" technique

Another good technique that I can tell you and it will also look like "natural winging" , is something that i used to do back in high school.

Two months ago I was outside sarging with one of my old friends ( a real natural ) back in my hometown. We decided to go out, we were having lots of success with girls getting #closes and some kcloses. we were ready to go to some after party with some girls when we saw 3 hotties standing by themselves in the middle of the bar. We went to speak with them.

I opened the set with some stupid line and then he just walked into the other girl and started talking to her. The secret here was that we put the girls "back to back" ( we didn't mean to do that, it just happened), because i noticed and i wanted to prove that winging technique, i tried to speak boring things and make so many mistakes so my girl wouldn't be interested in me. 3 minutes after we arrived my girl was hating me, the thing was that she couldn't see what her friends were doing. My friend on the other hand was having lots of success with the girl, making her laugh and having a good time.

My girl didn't see what was happening but she was noticing that her friend was having a good time. What happened?? she tried to make conversation with me. I made her make an effort before I started to pay attention to her. After a while we got this girls out of the club and went to the after party.

The secret here was that they didn't have communication between them. They weren't even making eye contact so they just heard their friends having fun and they didn't wanted to cook block her best friend, so they tried to have a good time to.

I have tried this theory with other women and on different situations and worked really good.

If you're going out with one of your wings, make sure to tell him to try this technique with you.
In my personal opinion I thing that it's better than the regular winging technique were he arrives after a while asking you for one of your friends, and making so obvious that he wants to be part of the set.

I really hope that this techniques will help you guys !!! Have a nice weekend ;)

New posts coming soon!!

2010-01-16T17:43:00.001-08:00

Hey what's up guys!!!

Well last week was kinda busy for me !! I had to so so much stuff for my other job!! and I was giving one to one coaching to some guys closer to where I live!!! Well the point is that i didn't have time to write for the blog but this week i will be posting my new "get into her pants" technique and some posts about getting her # number. Also I was working on a Video. The video is going to be about "approach anxiety" and well it's a video with my advice in how to overcome approach anxiety!! I am sure that you guys will like it !!!

Another thing !! you guys can now subscribe to the blog and receive emails anytime that me and the other guys upload new content!!! so you can check it as soon as it gets into the web!!!

Good luck everybody !!! and have a nice week!!!

Everyone has "that" friend

2010-01-12T21:18:00.000-08:00

Hey guys !!!

This post is dedicated to all of “those” guys, yeah you know what type of guys because everyone has "that" friend or "those" friends who are always speaking bad things and surrounded of negativity. This post is written by me as an advice for some guys who are out there just starting to get into the game and all their friends are just stopping them from success, giving them “good advice” and just pushing them away from a real accomplishment in life.

For a long time I was surrounded by people who was always giving me “bad advice” and being a bad influence in every aspect of my life. There was always some guy who was telling me “you can’t do that”, “don’t even try”, “she is not your type”, and even “nah she is not into you at all”, WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING.

Over my life I heard all those phrases, and all that negative vibe was with me when every time that I was surrounded by those “friends”. When I was getting into the game and we started going out, my friends were like “you haven’t even kissed a girl before man… you won’t do it tonight “, “dude you are not rich... you can’t buy her all that she wants, don’t even try” and all those negative phrases that affected my “state”. So even before trying to get the girl, I was going out with the idea of “I’m not getting the girl… I’m not good enough”.

Of course that with that vibe surrounding me I didn’t get the girls and I was also pissed with myself because I wasn’t having fun at all, and also I thought that I wasn’t good enough for some girls. but was I good enough?? HELL YEAH!! And I knew it, the problems was, that when I go out all the negativity of my friends and all those “crappy comments” didn’t helped so much to get me into state.

They were fucking up my inner game. The image that I had from myself wasn’t affected by me. Their dumb game and their bad comments and negativity were really fucking everything up. I wasn’t even having fun when I hanged out with them. So what was the point of hanging out if I wasn’t having fun???

These external comments affect not just your game with girls but can affect all your activities and also mess up your life, as an example let me show you this true story....

I was always surrounded by the "wrong" type of people (until now). My father always told me that I needed to find guys who have the same interests than me!!! When I was younger I loved cars... so I joined a car club... but all the guys that were there just liked the club because was a "nice" place to join with your friends and drink. "My Car club friends” didn’t like to go to “Auto shows” or anything like that, and I really loved cars. When those events came, (expositions or auto shows) I was really mad because nobody wanted to go, so of course that I wasn’t in the mood of hitting on girls when a car show was coming because I wanted to be there. During that time of my life I was also asking to myself why didn’t I find the right people with my same interests??? I was really angry and sometimes sad in my life until I took control of my life.

On this life you are living your reality and the one who really matters is you. There are some good people out there who are always willing to help but there are some others who are just happy with teasing people and being negative people and you should be away from them. Learn to identify them and go away from those bad influences.

What should you do??? Find guys with the same interests than you. If you are a guy who likes to party, find guys who actually like to go to parties every time. If you love to hang out with just girls, find some guys who actually have lots of girlfriends and like to hang out with them. No matter what you do if you love video games I’m sure that is somebody out there who also loves video games, you see my point???

They don’t have to be pick up artists or anything they’re just your friends. You don’t have to hang out with them every night. You can go out by yourself or with some of them or with your girlfriends but the thing is that being surrounded by the “right” type of people gives you the confidence and the “back up” putting you in the mood of “nothing could hurt me” and this will help you, not just with the girls, but in life.

Getting along with the “right” type of people gives you the good mood in life and also keeps you happy. Having friends is a really good thing and well more if it’s people who shared the same interests as you. If you have friends you have somebody who really cares for you and who can help you when you need advice or when you get in trouble.

***Note ***

On the article when I use the word “right” or “wrong” I don’t mean that these people are actually wrong or right, I just mean that they have different preferences.

Kiss Closes

2010-01-12T20:37:00.000-08:00

By: Jason Cross (PUA ARISTOCRACY)

Hello my friends and Brothers and welcome to Open Seduction! This week I asked around about what you guys wanted to read about and Kcloses came out on top. So I decided to share a couple tricks-of-the-trade

I 've developed and found to be effective. I know from experience and from talking with some of you that some guys can open sets and do GreaT, then when it's time to go for the kiss they freeze up or don't know what to do. Kiss closing doesn't have to be such a big deal! If you aren't experienced or just have trouble getting Kcloses you should have something prepared. Routines and little tricks are excellent ways to gain experience getting Kcloses and eventually you'll be able to drop the routines if you wish and use a more natural approach once you feel you're ready.

This first little trick I'm going to tell you about I came up with at a outdoor party in the Fall a couple years ago. I was talking to this cute girl and everything was going good. She was a bit on the shy side and I wasn't sure if I should try to kiss her or not. I didn't want to scare her off but then again I didn't want to waste this opportunity. Then out of the corner of my eye I noticed a girl putting on chapstick and a light bulb went off! So I casually mentioned my lips were dry and she looked at me like I was crazy...so then I said "Do you have some chapstick I can use?" (in my head I'm thinking if she'll let me use her chapstick she'll probably let me kiss her.) She replied "Oh (cute lil laugh) ok, sure no problem." So I applied some of her tasty strawberry lip balm, gave her a smirk (she smiled), so I leaned in and went for the kiss. Success! I've used this or a variation on it many time since and I've had very good results. Try this out, it works!

Now this routine I'm going to talk about now is more of a opener/kclose combined. You are going to need a camera or a camera phone for this. It works good on college campuses especially but I've also done this in a mall before too. What you do is approach girls and say something like "I'm involved in a scavenger hunt for _____ and I need to get a picture of me kissing a pretty girl I don't know." She'll most likely refuse at first but that's to be expected. Then you can counter with "This is for a good cause, it's for (insert random good cause)." If she still refuses you can guilt trip her about your "good cause", chat her up a bit and ask again, or move on to the next girl. This routine is about getting comfortable kissing girls and you shouldn't invest too much time with each girl. Try to close as many girls as you can with this one, it will do wonders for your confidence! It's also helpful to have a list of scavenger hunt tasks on hand to give you some more credibility if she calls your intentions in to question. I actually got the idea from this when a girl Kclosed me with something similar. She approached me as I was coming out of a pota-potty at a kegger and said "Can I makeout with you?" before I had the chance to say "Hell Yeah!" She continued her sales pitch with "My friend dared me to kiss the next cute guy I saw and to take a picture for proof." So we made out and we had some drunk chick take a picture. I have no clue if there was a bet with her "friend" but to tell you the truth I don't care, she was smokin' hot. We ended up making out for awhile after the pic was taken. It didn't go further than makingout because I had to leave the party soon there after. I #closed her but I never called, I lived far away from her and I wasn't really trying to get involved with that whole situation. Though we never spoke again we'll always have our drunken make-out session near the porta-potty. Thanks for the memories what ever your name was.

Please comment on this post and tell us what you think and/or what you'd like to read about in the future. We'll do our best to accommodate your requests. I'm thinking of writing about Day Game vs. Night Game in my next article but I'm open to suggestions. So till next time...~Game On~

The most important manuever for beginners to learn!

2010-01-05T13:54:00.001-08:00

Note: I met Sonja and Jerry at the club and they agreed to be my volunteers for the pictures I took for this blog. It was funny, all I did was tell Sonja where to stand in the first photo, I told Jerry what to do and how to do it. He excuted the move perfectly, I got what I wanted in just two hotographs. Sonja's reactions were not staged. I love how Jerry got a great smile out of her and started with other things. Though I only talk about "perception," there are other things that happened during this interaction like "KINO" which he performed on her, but at the same time, he got her to perform KINO on him.

Sonja's reaction will often shock people who don’t know the psychology behind this. I have seen some real Jabba the Hutt Chewbacca looking like individuals hook some beautiful women with this move.

If you are a beginner, you will amazed in how much attention or attitude will change in the woman. I encourage you guys to try it out if you have never done this next time you are out.

A common mistake I often see men do that ruins the perception people will have for them is often cornering or trapping a woman at the bar, wall or when they sit down at a restaurant.

"Locking in" is by far the most single handed important manuever that needs to be done. Many of the Pick Up Artist Gurus I have met have told me that, If you lock in, you are now 90% better than most PUAS.

There are many psychological aspects to "Social Proof" and "Locking In"

Often when I sit down at a resturant, I ask to sit down inside the booth and have the girl sit on the outside. The justification, I tell, is, "Well if you ever want to get up to go to the bathroom, I don't have to scoot out.." (Now I'm a cool guy she thinks cause I'm looking out for her..)

In the picture below, anyone who is watching this situation will automatically assume Jerry maybe desperate since it looks like he is hitting on Sonia.

I often tell men, you have to reverse what people in your surrounding areas think they are see’ing.
So if it looks like you got her cornered, and you are hitting on her, you grab her by the hands, swing her around and lean back on the bar, wall, or seat sit inside of the booth of a restaurant.

By doing this, now it looks like and gets them thinking, to everyone, and to all the women, that she is hitting on you now, not the other way around. The thing with this, is that, now the woman is working to get your attention, and you are not working to get her attention any longer. It's psychological but it never fails.

If women see a woman hitting on another guy, she will or may get jealous, or wonder what that man has. This leads to something called "Pre-selection" and you now have something called "Social Proof."

You are basically commiting suicide in a venue when you DO NOT LOCK IN DURING AN INTERACTION.

"I hate to text. . ."

2010-01-04T13:08:00.000-08:00

Back in October of 2009, Adam Lyons spoke at the Casanova Crew meeting which a lair located in Southern California. He had filmed his talk and someone asked him about "text game which is located on this video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnJ1pM3IbQY) on youtube. I also remembered Adam Lyons talking about "FRAME CONTROL" in the British Channel 4 documentary Rules of Seduction.

Here is what I do, when it comes to regarding "Texting" which has blown up my results ASTRONOMICALLY SKY HIGH with girls, over the phone conversation which helps immensely to follow up with day 2s, dates, or responses for the girl I am "Gaming"

(FRAME CONTROL)

Everytime a girl asks me for my number, I automatically go in to ‘frame control’ by saying,

“I will give you my number but I don’t want to be your text buddy.”

99% of the time, girls will be, “but I like to text..” or “why not..”

If she doesn't mention anything, as we are plugging each others numbers in to our phones, I ask.. "Do you know why.."

Than she will ask "WHY..."

(JUSTIFICATION)

I will respond, “I don’t like to text, it’s impersonal/ingenuine. You can text me, but I don’t do it often because it doesn’t convey the same sentiments as my verbal words, I just hate to text, I'm a little old school.."

Many times girls agree and say something like "I like that you are being real with me, I need people like that in my life.."

(FALSE INVESTMENT)

So when I text, I don’t ever lose interest because HER PERCEPTION IS that I’m actually putting forth an effort to get in touch with her and I’m going against everything I believe in.

If I call, she picks up or returns my call because she knows I hate to text because it's impersonal, and I am being REAL with her because of the JUSTIFICATION I used...

(Getting INVESTMENT)

Many of the times, I’ll send her a text, “I hate texting, but I just wanted to say hello,”

Anyways, she always ends up calling me. I think she calls because she knows that I’m trying to be real with her. (Frame Control of saying It's impersonal/ingenuine)

She is investing by calling me and actually making that effort. Once we are texting, it's on. We will be texting and then all of a sudden I'll be like "Call me, You know I hate texting.." If she can't because she is in school/work or something, I can be like, "Well call me as soon as you get out.."

This allows me to talk to her on the phone and create conversation, rapport, etc etc...

WHY WOULD I WANT TO CHASE A GIRL WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE IN MY LIFE?

During conversation. I just apply the (C-R) + Q+ SE Model Adam Lyons teaches..

It is easier than everyone makes it out to be..

Every so often I will throw it back and anchor her and re-frame again with the "I hate texting.." just to keep it in her head.

Anyways, I have actually been testing this out a lot..

Dating is Confusing....

2010-01-04T12:06:00.000-08:00

Well I was watching this video and I thought it was really funny!!!

Dating could be so confusing sometimes.. so why not keep it simple???

Know what you want!!!

2009-12-30T00:16:00.000-08:00

Hello friends!!!

After Christmas holidays and NYE coming really soon I like to talk about knowing what you want (about women of course )for this coming year!!!

As many of you!! I thought that everybody knew what they wanted in life!!!! I was mistaken!! ..

This past weekend I decided to do a 3 days "Sargeathon" with one student( and friend) in his hometown (back in Mexico).

For the ones that are not familiar with the word Sargeathon, it means that you go out to game girls but like a marathon! so you do it as many times as you can, and play every card that you get..

This is really good because you learn so much about your game! also about what you are doing wrong and you experiment with new theories and come up with new openers, routines, this really helps you a lot being a natural.. if you've never done it, i really encourage you to go out right now and do it!

Knowing what you really want, helps you to build the method that you're gonna use with that girl, and also where to look for her...When you Open a girl in a night club, talk to her for a while and invite her group of friends to an after party at your place. (and they decided to go) means for them that they are going to have sex with you and your friends. Of course that the girls are attracted to you and your friends, but they probably won't be taking you as "boyfriend material" anymore.

For me this is really good, when you want to have just fun and sex! there is no other way to do it, but what if you're looking for a "long-term-relationship" ??? ( im not saying that you can't get it but this is not the best way of doing it).

** True story**

2 years ago me and my friends went out to a fancy night club in Texas and picked up a group of 6 hot girls, we were talking for a while at the night club about some stuff when I said to one girl that I was the best rock band player in the world and they agreed to go to our place and see if it was true...

As we arrived with the girls the guys turned on the Tv and xbox and started playing rock band... ( yup they did it ) the girls were really amazed when one of my friends invite them to play rock band with them.... after 5 minutes in the restroom they left our place really pissed off and looking for sex out there....

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When they came to our place of course they knew that they were going to have sex, they didn't care about rock band at all... it was just a good excuse to be there and have fun without concerns!!! after they left I talked to my friends about it, they told me that they were talking to the girls and they were "really nice girls " because my friends were looking for a relationship they didn't want to messed it up having sex with them...

Knowing what you really want is one of the most important things in game because knowing your priorities and identifying what you want really helps you to focus in actually GETTING what you want.. "how could you find something, if you don't know what you're looking for".

Before going out... or when you've free time think on what you want!!! (i.e)If you're looking for a long-term-relationship you're not going to game the girl by getting lots of attraction and sexual vibe, you probably wanna take her out another day, so you talk to her, build interest and get her number to get to know her better another day(to see if she is good for you.. not the other way around).

With some girls who are out there looking for love the fact that you use Direct game, with them make them lose interest in you. maybe you get a "party boy" vibe. or a "player vibe" (which you can take away later ) but why not doing it right since the beginning??

The point of this post (which could be understood as "what I learned this weekend")
is that is better for your game, if you know what you really want before going out looking for it. My advice for all of you is that if you are going out looking for "crazy-and-wild-sex" you act like you're looking for it !!! be confident and look for it, Also go to a place that meets the requirements of people that is looking for the same things as you.

P.S
Going to the library at 11am isn't the best place to find sex!!! ;)

Hello My PUA Brothers

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Thank you to my friend Hydro Nek for inviting me to participate in his blog. I'd like to invite you, if you don't already belong, to join my FaceBook group PUA ARISTOCRACY. It's the BIGGEST and BEST PUA group on FaceBook. Okay now that I got the shameless plug out of the way...I'd like to ask a few questions: What would you like to learn about? I'd like to know how I can best serve the readers of Hydro's blog so any feed-back would be GreaT. Is there something about Game that confuses you? If there is I will do my best to simplify it for you. I know new-comers can be over whelmed with all our terms and acronyms, so don't be bashful just ask. Finally, what can I do to make you better? If you need suggestions or help with anything don't hesitate to let me know. Alright gentlemen I look forward to helping and/or sharing with you . So let me know what you want to know, you know? hahaha Once I get some comments or emails I'll get right on with writing my next post. See you in the field Brothers and as always ~Game On~
-Jason Cross (PUA ARISTOCRACY)

Welcome everybody!!!!

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Hello again everybody.. I'm HidroPua...

To talk about myself a little bit, I'm a regular guy who lives in El Paso T.X. and LOVES women. I am not going to lie, I was never that geeky guy who couldn't get laid or get any girl, but I wasn't either that popular guy who gets all the girls.

Over the time that concerned me.. I asked myself so many time what I was doing wrong.. and it wasn't until i broke up from my 2-years-long-relationship that I found out what my mistake was...

I had "limiting believes" of myself.. I was always making excuses to see if I should talk to that hot babe who was walking in front of me during my math class, or that one who was singing in front of me at that nightclub... also the hot girl who was buying groceries at the grocery store.. and you know what I ALWAYS found a great excuse to not talk to them.. (i.e I'm to short... I'm not wearing fancy clothes... I'm not driving a good car)So my advice to you all.. START TALKING TO GIRLS.. doesn't matter who, where or why.. just DO IT!!!!!

This is the beginning of my new blog so I’m going to be posting really interesting articles about how to meet beautiful women, everywhere, by that I mean really everywhere… on the street, nightclubs, libraries, school even on the church ;)….

Also I will try to upload video footages of me with HB's so you can get any tips and try to use them for yourself.

The best party of this is that all is going to be free of charge.

Like most of you guys I really want to change this world. So I thought why not doing it my way. My way is to change it making people happy, and if you get girls you're happy.. if they get men.. they're happy so why not ;)

I would appreciate any comments and any questions so you can help me to make this blog bigger!!! hope you come back to read my posts and also if you have interesting post please share that information with everybody!!!

Thank you everybody!