What's up people!!!! Today I am gonna talk about inner game. First of all i would love to wish you all a happy 2011 full of Hot women and crazy experiences. Second, i want you to make a promise to yourself, like a new years' resolution. "this year you will start Dating the women you WANT. Not the ones you can".
This advice or words are really important for me cause I LIVED with them for so many years and to be honest out of ALL my close friends i don't know ANYBODY that follows this advice, which is pretty simple by the way.
OK around the age of 16 to 19, like all the teenagers, i want to have sex with tons of women. guess what?? that didn't happened. I wanted to fuck super hot women, dream girls, models etc... and guess what?? i wasn't getting ANY of that. when I saw a woman that i really liked nothing happened, you know why?? cause i didn't even approached her, i always ended up hooking up with the women that had already picked me. Regarding that, I was happy during those times (because i started on pick up at 17 and i thought i was getting lots of girls) but what i didn't know is that i wasn't getting the girls that i wanted, it was the other way around, they were getting the guy they wanted.
Of course that didn't made me happy. I cannot say that i never got the woman that i wanted but most of the times i didn't.
Yeah my life was kinda pathetic right???
hahahaha so now you are using your pick up techniques successfully, you are hooking up with women, cute ones but think about this.. are they the ones you want?? or they pick you up first???? for me that was the case, and for most of the guys that i see around it is too....
what I want you to understand is that not Everybody thinks or behaves the same way. Most important nobody thinks equal, but they have similitudes, for example shy people they have something in common etc... when people tell you they can get ANY woman they want, they lie. Sadly they do.
Nobody can force other people to like you, understand that pick up is a series of advantages that help you to create an attitude more attractive to the opposite sex. The key of succeeding here is to UNDERSTAND how to deal with it.
Approach ALL THE WOMEN YOU LIKE, if they are hot and u like them... approach them, test your skills with them..... don't wait until they approach you, if out of 2 women u want one don't wait until the other one hits on you. pick up THE ONE THAT YOU WANT.
The most important thing is to learn how to deal with Rejection. Understand that NOT ALL women would be into you, no matter what you do. to explain myself let me give you an example:
Imagine the best pick up artist, ur favorite, a super alpha male. Now let's say that he's on a nightclub and he tries to pick up this super hot 10! she's wonderful! gorgeous eyes beautiful body, simply perfect... and he approaches, but he founds out that she's a lesbian, moreover she is in a happy elationship with her girlfriend. could he pick her up???? of course NOT, and i know that was extreme but i just want you to get my point. That could happen with women that are ONLY into mmmh let's say, 100% black guys, i'm fucked... or into tall guys... i can't help it... u see what i mean???
So you can't pick up 100% of the women u want, but u can pick up most of them. That is the point. Learn how to deal with rejection, if some women don't want you, FUCK THEM!!! they loose the opportunity to be with a fucking Rockstar like you!!! deal with it, deal with the NO.
Start talking to the woman you like if she rejects you go for another one, but be comfortable with the idea of hooking up with that ugly woman that is talking to you cause you didn't "find" anything better.
G luck!!!
-idronek-
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